2006-09-10 14:48:11 · 10 answers · asked by joyce_41144 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I have been on paxil for several years now. But here latley I have been having more anxiety attacks to the point I can't sleep. I feel like my life is out of control. I babysit the grandbabys alot and that sucks the life out of me. My husband does not spend anytime with me like I am not even here. I just simply hate my life and wish I wasn't here any longer. I feel like a trapped wild animal trying to get out with no where to go. Or no way to get out.
2006-09-10 15:02:44 · update #1
I dread getting out of the bed in the mornings because I know what my day is going to bring. I would never hurt one of the kids. But I do feel like I want to hurt something. I have been having thoughts of how to get out of this mess my life has become. My husband is of no help to me, if anything he is a large part of my problem. All he says is I dont know what to tell you.
2006-09-10 15:09:16 · update #2
From extensive experience, I would say it is the paxil talking here. I have been through it, and you should know the facts about paxil - it begins as "a wonder drug" and ends up taking over your life and destroying your mind.
GlaxoSmith Kline actually lied about the side effects and withdrawal problems resulting from paxil, and are facing several lawsuits, as well as have lost quite a few. I am a member of an online forum that explains paxil, its' use, the side effects, and provides support for those of us crippled by the side effects - are you aware that paxil represses REM sleep? That there is a 67% chance of withdrawal that includes manic states, head zaps, headaches, fatigue, anger, rage, sadness, depression, and suicidal tendencies? That doctors don't even admit to this yet? AND, that you can experience all of this fun while still TAKING the drug? Visit the site below to get more facts. I actually have to inform my doctors of these things, but the facts are real, and so are the problems that come from paxil use. So far, there is a general ignorance of paxil's deadly and painful legacy -- know the facts.
I strongly suggest reading this site before going off paxil. Stopping the drug cold-turkey is an awful shock to the system, and some of the lawsuits GlaxoSmith Kline are losing are to the families of those who carried out suicides after quitting paxil. Come visit!
2006-09-10 17:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by Clickclack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not uncommon that when you have been on the same medication for a long period of time, they stop working the way they used to. The effects of this are worse than if you were taking nothing at all, and it can make you feel suicidal.
My suggestion is that you see your doctor as soon as possible. If you feel really unstable right now, get yourself to an emergency room and tell them what is happening to you. You are not having a "nervous breakdown" - you are suffering the effects of meds that are not working, and believe me, if you go to the ER or to your doctor and explain what is going on - they will understand.
I also want you to understand that families most often do NOT understand what you are going through - even though they want to. For anyone who has not suffered through depression, they just cannot know what it is like. Sometimes it is easier to distance themselves, rather than feel like they are not competent to help you. It is not personal, and your husband still loves you just as much as he did - he just doesn't know what to do for you.
Help yourself and do it right now. Don't wait because your life is important and you have people depending on you. And don't beat yourself up about this - because it isn't your fault. You have no way of controlling the chemicals in your brain, except with medication.
Please take care of yourself and feel free to contact me if you would like to talk further.
2006-09-10 22:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by just me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nervous breakdown is an old fashioned slang term and in order to answer this quesion more accurately people would need to know if you are feeling depressed, what symptoms of depression you are exhibiting such as compulsive eating or not eating at all, sleeping all the time or not sleeping at all, not leaving the house, feeling lazy all the time, not answering your phone,,,crying excessively. Or if you are talking about severe anxiety ...unable to deal with everyday life things and functions. Etc.
2006-09-10 21:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by sassykellie19662006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like your meds are no longer working for you. Talk to your doc. You might also want to think about talking with a family/marriage therapist - they talk to individuals as well as couples. Talking about what you're going thru with someone that has training and some understanding may help you figure out what's going on in a way that you'd not be able to do on your own. Much better to be proactive now than risk sliding further down into dispair.
2006-09-10 22:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by Alex62 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not nearly qualified enough to answer your question, but I think you may need to go see a doctor. Maybe he can prescribe you something more, besides Paxil, to make you feel better. No one deserves to live with symptoms like yours. Good luck.
2006-09-10 22:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by REDHED4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your doctor. If you don't like your doctor, go to the emergency room. If you are not sleeping, dread getting out of bed, have a history of depression and/or panic attacks, get help right away!
May God bless and keep you safe this night.
2006-09-10 23:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by soxrcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely get help. It feels like you are at the bottom of the barrell right now, but there is help out there. A different combo of meds could bring you out of it. Please don't hesitate on getting help - your kids & husband need you. You need you. Be strong. Be Well. Good luck.
2006-09-11 00:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by lalo m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are depressed. You should be seeing your Psychiatrist to regulate your medication. In addition, it also sounds like you don't make any time for yourself. Try and make some time for things just for you. Do what you enjoy and if you don't know what that is, start looking for things. Don't depend on your husband to make you happy. Only you can make you happy. Good Luck.
2006-09-10 22:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Psychiatric professionals classify it more like suicidal, severe depression, etc... If you have lost interest in life and/or feel like harming yourself or others, you need to seek help.
2006-09-10 21:52:29 · answer #9 · answered by catzrme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call 911/ and if you have any valiums of Xanax take one even if your neighbor has one take it. It can save your life.
2006-09-10 21:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋