i really do love him but everysice we started school he's been acting different. I mean it seems like he wants to be with his boy more than me and we don't even get to see each other like that just every once in a wile. and when i call him he never awnsers and once he does he acts like i'm irratating him so what do i do dump him or work it out?
2006-09-10 13:26:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its called communication, ask him if anything is wrong. tell him your worries, if he doesnt shape up, ship out
2006-09-10 13:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK the games on. You obviously don't just want to throw the towel in straight away or you would dump his a***. What you need to do sweety, and trust me men are very primitive creatures, is make him realise that other men do find you attractive and you don't need him.
Start checking your phone, get girlfriends or whoever to call you when you know hes going to be around, end conversations dodgerly " I cant talk now...yeah hes here...Saturday sounds gre8" ect Make plans for dinner with friends and start going out alot dont invite him. Never answer his calls sraight away, always call back after a few minutes and try to make sure there are people in the background.
YOU BE TOO BUSY FOR HIM, If he hasn't made plans for Saturday nite by Thursday nite then do your own thing. If he does manage to ask you out but later then that, then your already busy and sorry he cant come.
Maybe talk about joining the gym and the hot personal trainers there. Play it cool. Dont hassle him or get upset by his bad behaviour, why break balls when he has to see " I might actually loose her, I DONT WANT THAT" He has to discover that for himself. So make yourself allot less available.
Its all a big game, play your cards right and your man will be eating out of the palm of your hand.
2006-09-10 22:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by kathycracksit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
--- People drive you crazy if you let them drive you crazy. If it seems like he wants to be with his boy more than you--- GUESS WHAT? He wants to be with his boy more than you. Stop calling him. Dogs only run further & faster if you chase them ! Every time you feel like you're missing him do something for yourself go for a walk, workout, study. Focus on you! When you concentrate on being the best you , that you can be... GUESS WHAT? you will realize this "boy" is not good enough for you! Keep studying there are plenty of well educated boys,/ men out there who would appreciate a smart, beautiful girl like you! Let the dog go!!!
2006-09-10 20:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he seems to never answer you, be cautioned on what he is doing with or around his guys. He is obviously not respecting you. It hard when you love someone, but you should love yourself even more. If you don't feel like it's working out or you aren't being treated the way you should I'd advise you to end it. If you've tried talking to him about it and he gets annoyed then you know your way too mature for him. Great men want to spend time with their women. Any guy I know who hangs with their guys more flirt with other women or are looking for someone else to be with. Good luck!
2006-09-10 20:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by * Kittles * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just lay low for awhile and let him do the chasing. He might just need some space and he might be not as interested in you as he once was. Just give it some time and if he doesnt come around, consider it his loss and find new someone else. Good Luck.
2006-09-10 20:31:05 · answer #5 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he has to be with his boy. That is his own flesh and blood. You aren't.
Now, from your perspective, you are free to like, or dislike what you want. If you want to suffer through, try to find your place in this family. If you are feeling left out, its better to end things.
Sorry if this answer hurts, but its better to leave with a bite, than be swallowed whole.
2006-09-10 20:35:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to work it out but there is only so much you can put into a relationship to make it work.
If he is not willing to give you the attention you deserve then you should dump him and move on.
2006-09-10 20:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl my man was like that. and come to find out he was seeing another chick. he wouldnt pick up my phone calls and he had a celly so i know he saw my number and he acted funny and mean!! someone told me he was seeing another chick so possible hes seeing someone else or his boys but i would ask him whats the deal and if he still acting foolish dump him and find u someone else! you aint gotta put up with that mess!
2006-09-10 20:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by brownsugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you should ask him whats going on? maybe its just the excitment of starting a new school year. whatever his answer is you need to accept it and go on with your life. there are more fish in the sea.
2006-09-10 20:32:14 · answer #9 · answered by dorna g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things that interest you. Tell him he can come too or not. If he shows up he probably cares. If not, MOVE ON!
2006-09-10 20:28:57 · answer #10 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋