Or should I let myself go....As i'll never find Mrs Right..
2006-09-10 13:21:02 · 19 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wanted to ask some time ago the very same question, but i soon found out the answer myself: Don't rush it, don't go to bed with any woman you fall in love with, wait for that very special one, and when you fell like you'll be getting married, and she'll be feeling that too, than you'll have a wonderful time. I never thought that i should wait until my wedding night, but when I'm engaged or when we both fell that we've found our mach...There are times when sex doesn't work out even when the two people love each other, it's better to find this out, when you are engaged then when you are married. And trust me there is a Mrs. right for you, and it worth waiting, just remember, when the time comes, you have to be sure. And till then believe in God, and trust me, you'll find her.
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2016-02-11 21:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not something you can ask of other people. It's all in what you feel comfortable with. A lot of people intend to save themselves because it witholds their own values and if that is what you value, then don't give up your beliefs for anything. On the other hand, if you find someone who you feel incredibly and intensely connected to, then you'll know if the time is right.
I'm not going to sugarcoat it for you- Mrs. Right may be out there, and she may not be out there, but your beliefs are what make you true to yourself so don't compromise them!
All the best in your final decision
2006-09-10 13:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by devilish6_6_6angel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The Spin does not stop there. be yourself. nothing would change even you don't find Mrs Right. Saving and finding are two different things to think of. so, do whatever you think its good 4 you.
2006-09-10 13:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by Liquid Solid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself for marriage! Trust me its worth it!
2006-09-10 13:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Saving yourself for marriage is very honorable. One day you will find Ms. Right, when you least expect it.
2006-09-10 13:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by trisha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-10 18:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think saving yourself for marriage is a virtuous thing. it shows that you're responsible and mature. you will find mrs right someday, i promise. dont let some others influence you. its your pride and happiness at stake
2006-09-10 22:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by gweneth lynn paltfeir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't sound so blue! the perfect woman is out there for you! i think you should save yourself because you will appreciate it more on your wedding night. she'll know that you waited your whole life just for her!
p.s.- never say never! ;) if you ever need to talk, just e-mail me
2006-09-10 13:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by snuggle_me_pink 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would be wise to experiment a bit before marrying i think.
Im shocked there are so many savers here.....................I'm outta touch with the new generation. Thought you were all at it like rabbits.
How ever theres always the what you dont know u wont miss thing also.
2006-09-10 13:28:58 · answer #10 · answered by hmmmmmmanna 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋