I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me.. without telling me or anything.. what should i do?..
2006-09-10 13:12:41 · 25 answers · asked by liberos-are-fun 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
obvious - dump him, and inform all the people you know he is not faithful
2006-09-10 13:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by ansem7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you have to ask yourself this, "would my boyfriend really cheat on me", and then "did the person that told me see it with their own eyes or did they get their info from another person".
What I would do is, wait a little bit, think about it you know, and really think if i should believe that person. Stuff goes around that isn't true, im sure a lot of people get rumors said about them that aren't true. So just think and sit him down and ask him. Tell him your going to listen to what he has to say, and that you trust him, but you want to know the truth.
2006-09-10 20:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the most common answer that you are going to get is dump him...
Going further into that. If he has cheated on you then you don 't need that. It is uncalled for stress. You no longer trust him. And with no longer trusting him you will fight over petty things now and it is pointless.
I am going to assume that you and he are still in high school and there are plenty of other boys that i am sure would love to have your time.
Let it go and move on with your life.
2006-09-10 20:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by Mellisa C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better.Once someone as cheated you may forgive but they will never win back you trust . If he did it this time how many other times has he done it without you knowing ? And how many other times would he also do it without thinking about you again . Their is someone more deserving of your love out there !!! MOve on
2006-09-10 20:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by HAPA CHIC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him, ask him, then dump him. Or if you really want to get him back, have an affair and hide it from him.
I really don't recommend the second course of action because it will cause you a world of problems. So the only choice in my opinion is to kick him to the curb. Let him be someone else's problem.
2006-09-10 20:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by trisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you, and didn't tell you? Man, are you confused? If he did tell you, does that make it okay? If you are totally sure that he did cheat on you, and you need to be real certain - you don't want to make a big mistake on your relationship like this if it is not so - then you should dump him square and fair, as he doesn't vaule you for being you.
2006-09-10 20:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by victorygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who told you that he chaeted then?
if it is from a reliable source then confront him about it tell him that girl he cheated with is now his girlfriend and that things are over. Simple answer
2006-09-10 20:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a hard one to answer. I have had it happen to me, I would say its time shame on you, second time shame on me..Give him only 1 chance but it will be hard to trust him...Sometimes they change but most often once a cheater always a cheater...depends on what is at stake if you have kids try to work it out, if not then maybe you should just walk away
2006-09-10 20:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with his 2 best friends at the same time then let him find out from someone else like u did.
2006-09-10 20:15:14 · answer #9 · answered by chitown.nate 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him to go out with you and go with another guy. He will get mad but tell him that he cheated an you then leave with the guy (not your boyfriend)
2006-09-10 20:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by lalalalallalalalalalal 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Talk it out with him without yelling and screaming at him find out the reason why he did it. Remember men will always be men!!
2006-09-10 20:14:26 · answer #11 · answered by lady93534 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋