we were togather in college.. we know each other but were not close friends.. i liked her but she was with sombody.. so i didnt try.. after some years of graduation i met her again.. she was single.. and me too.. then i met her again, then i asked her to date each other.. she agreed.. but we had a very bad first date.. she was not that charachter i imagined in my mind.. and we didnt try again.. after one year we met again.. and we really enjoyed each other talking..
should i ask her to try again? do you think she will accept again? if she said why again, what to tell?
2006-09-10 13:05:09 · 13 answers · asked by helix 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We people at times tend to "imagine in our minds" what someone is like and we get bitterly dissappointed, that's our first mistake. She may have just had a bad day when you had your first date way back whe, or it may just be that you and her connect on an intellectual level and it will be nothing more than that. Ask her out, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Good Luck :)
2006-09-10 13:13:07 · answer #1 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask her again. I mean, if you only had the one bad date, then either one of you may have been having bad days or not been yourselves or who knows. Give it another shot. It seems odd that you all keep meeting if something isnt meant to happen.
If she asks why, tell her that you think theres a reason you two keep being brought together and that youd like to see if theres some potential there.
2006-09-10 20:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by jackiespotlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For sure ask her again there is a reason you keep bumping into one another follow that and you have nothing to lose but everything to gain... Have fun :)
2006-09-10 20:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by Ellie-Hay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure! If you really enjoyed talking to her last time you saw her, why not? She won't ask why you're asking her out on another date if you don't use the word, "date". Just ask her to go somewhere... if it's dinner and she asks why, say, "well we gotta eat, right?" ;)
2006-09-10 20:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would asking her again hurt? The worse she could say is no and then it would be settled. No one can answer the other questions, those are questions that can only be answered by you and her. Go for it!
2006-09-10 20:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by ajd1bmf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will ask (wise of you to realise this) so be ready.
How about this:
I know we've never really clicked, and ordinarily, I would just say, "I guess it just wasn't meant to be". But something is telling me it's worth one more try. You wanna meet one more time, say for lunch, and just see what happens?
2006-09-10 20:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by Elwood Blues 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3rd times a charm
2006-09-10 20:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her ask again and take it slow. If you think it will work.
2006-09-10 20:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure. why not give it another try? what do you have to lose? you obviously still like her. if she agrees. then give it another shot. maybe it will go better this time. good luck!!! :)
2006-09-10 20:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by monkeygirl244330 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw,leave it alone.You bring it up again you may never see her again or wait and see if she brings it up.
2006-09-10 20:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋