women what do you consider a good approach / how do you like man to ask you out
2006-09-10 13:05:02 · 12 answers · asked by teecee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get a decent wardrobe, a good haircut, and have some £££ in your pocket and you should be oozing confidence
2006-09-11 06:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jamieson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 6 years, it disintegrated. It was tough, but through good friends and advice I gradually got my confidence back.
A little bit of advice. According to estimated world statistics there are approximately 6,541,161,782 people in the world at this moment. If roughly half of them are women, then you have about 3 and a quarter billion women to try and talk to.
If one women rejects, or is rude to you, just laugh or smile then move on. There are billions more you can talk to.
It's all about confidence. Think about it this way, if she rejects me, what damage will that do? The answer is...none. If your approach doesn't work, think about what you said and did, and modify it.
If all else fails having a dedicated wingman at your side can be invaluable.
2006-09-10 13:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by Guy_in_Seoul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a powerful hair-do once you've hair. Shave and make confident you scent powerful and masculine. once you meet women i'd trust that's adequate to pass as a lot as them, act nicely and attempt now to not seem down on the floor even although you do not have a lot to assert, (that would nicely be powerful too in a lady's eyes i imagine) have the braveness to ask them their call, say that they offer the effect of being powerful, ask them in the journey that they are from city and such conventional questions and in case you could pass out later and performance a drink. If it quite works and he or she has the same opinion to have a drink with you try to be courageous with the help of your first drink, through the time you've complete the drink you may have accumulated some "dutch braveness" and could be feeling so alluring and assured. do not drink too a lot, the worst ingredient a guy can do is vomit on a date, i in my opinion would under no circumstances seek for suggestion from from a guy back if that surpassed off. do not RUSH issues too a lot and do not ASK FOR sex, KISSES AND STUFF on the first DATE. i have heard this. i desire this enables some. i'm no longer an expert.
2016-10-16 00:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem, but obviously with men! Do things to gather your confidence - try internet dating, very popular now in the UK, but don't tell lies, they come back to bite you! But at least you get to find out a bit about her so you have something to ask about when you meet up.
Or, I haven't had guts for this, but you could try speed-dating, sounds extremely scary, and is for me, but you have limited 3 mins and can plan your questions in advance, if you mess up with one girl - no matter, the next one will be along to try again! Practice makes perfect and all that! Not sure if you're in UK, but will leave link below. Good luck
2006-09-10 13:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by Contrary Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a good approach wold be that a man is having a sincere feeling that he wants to get to know me more. It has to be passionate and that he only sees me. The best thing is probably for him to approach to me instead of me approaching him
2006-09-10 13:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, here is my best advice, "the only one who is embarrassed is you", you've got to get over it.
I see guys in bars who I think, "that boy is shameless!" But results are results. The ladies like a confident guy, not a wimp. Give them a hard time, tease them about their shoes -- they love it when someone can make them laugh.
2006-09-10 13:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BY working on your innergame self confidence.
check out stuff like speedseduction.com and ross jeff´s confidence tapes. really good.
and try the manipulation of social dynamics by mysterymethod.com
2006-09-10 15:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by Modus Operandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be pleasant and polite - a smile goes a long way! A compliment often goes a very long way - it doesnt really matter what you say though, just be yourself! We're not that scarey you know!!
2006-09-10 21:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could start with someone who's easy to talk to. I'm easy to talk to. Then when you feel more confident, you can go from there!!!!
2006-09-10 13:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cool. Ask simple questions...be outgoing.
2006-09-10 13:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by Miranda M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋