i have trouble asking girls out and i hate to make them feel uncomfortable, so what way would you prefer people to approach u
2006-09-10 12:43:35 · 27 answers · asked by Jake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would like a guy to come up to me and talk first, then i want him to look at me and smile then i want him to say i like u. but that goes f me not every one like the same thing. but maybe u can talk to the person first get to know them(that is if u don't) make them smile, u know make them feel spacial. make them can wait to see u next day. good luck.
2006-09-10 12:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by sweet143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't a special way to ask us out, but it's best to do it when her friends ARE NOT! around. That should make her a little less uncomfortable. Good luck in the future.
2006-09-10 19:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to be ask in a place where I will not be embarassed by having a lot of other people listening. I like to have it said simply and briefly. I like for the person asking me to know that I am very flattered to be ask and that he should never be nervous in doing it. I would encourage you to keep it simple. Keep it clear. And do it in a way that gives the girls a chance to be alone with you for a moment.
2006-09-10 19:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like being asked out by a stranger. Get to know a woman first before you ask her out. Talk online or on the internet or at the grocery store a few times. That way you know what kind of things she likes. When a guy asks me out for the first time, I like to have plenty of notice. I also like for him to have a plan as to what he wants to do. That is where the getting to know me first part comes in handy.
2006-09-10 19:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by Charlee's Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ever ask a girl out over the fone to start with....but other then that just make sure u n the girl have been talking for a while n when u guys have been flirting continuosly then just ask her if she's interested in being in a relationship
2006-09-10 19:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by jaslyndaunstoppablepimpett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do, is be polite about it and not blunt, like some guys are. Remember, as a male, you should treat women, the way you would want another male, to treat your mother and sister. I say mother and sister because those are two females, you would definitely want someone to show respect to.
2006-09-10 19:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what part do you have trouble on? is it that you get nervous?.. if so then you should prolly use text or aim\aol\yahoo messanger. that wayy you dont have to personally do it and you have a chance to read over what you say. i personally dont think it matters how a guy asks me out because either wayy he's doing it. maybe try asking her how she likes to be asked out. but no matter what do what ever is most comfertable for you! = ]
2006-09-10 19:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by pickelsnmustard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to her and ask her. it is better if it's a moment thing, but if that kinda stuff doesn't come just ask. face to face because at least you have the courage to do it. she will commend that either way. even if she says no it's not he end of the world. good luck. [=
2006-09-10 20:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by SHANNON. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"just do it!" but w/ sincerity and mannerism. It kills the girls when you go around and around the issue. Don't be discouraged or toooo upset if you get rejected also. Be persistent, if you really like sb. (don't harass though. there is a fine line.) Good luck & have fun!
2006-09-10 19:47:51 · answer #9 · answered by erinlovestv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them to see if you have common interests, ie. music, sports, favorite restaurant, etc. When you find one, ask if they would like to join you sometime. If they say yes, pinpoint a date. If they are evasive, the answer is probably no.
2006-09-10 19:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋