What would you do if your 7 almost 8 year old found your 14 year old daughter having sex with a 17 year old boy in your house??
2006-09-10 12:35:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
First I would get my daughter some birth control then set down with each of them and have a good talk about the birds & the bees .
2006-09-10 12:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All Hell would break loose of course and the 17 year old would be in some serious trouble.I would probably ground my daughter for a month and take away many privilages for a long time.First thing you should do is get her on birth control.Explain to your younger daughter that what they were doing would be fine if they were two married adults.
2006-09-10 19:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat their asses and let the little ones watch that too.... sounds like 5 years grounding would be in order....
But seriously.... you can't change what they saw... explain that she wasn't suppose to be doing that... thats what married people do. Then take your daughter to the doctor. Get her checked out for everything from pregnancy to std's. Chances are it wasn't her first time. Call his parents... they can decide his punishment...
And you have to punish her in a way that is reasonable... and meaningful. She may need to talk to someone to help her realize she made a serious mistake.
And above all it's a matter of trust...was she suppose to be watching the younger ones? Find someone else to watch them.
Most importantly...think don't just react.
2006-09-10 20:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by john s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check how long it had been going on for and make sure she wasn't pregnant. Contact the boy's parents. Give my daughter serious words on self respect with permant supervision. Talk to the seven old and explain the facts of life.
2006-09-10 19:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by tjjkara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mate i would cry lol
2006-09-10 19:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by Bipolar-Bird88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋