The last 3 ladies, I had tried to be in a relationship with, an I almost married the last one I was involved with, yet she called it off, she did not like me calling her lovely, did not like being treated special, when I tried to give a small gifts like flowers, figurines, cook dinner, to show my affection towards them, I am a white man, seeking for a different culture / race lady , it appears all white woman are just simple crazy.
2006-09-10
12:33:05
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not me, I'm just married, oh wait I am crazy
2006-09-10 12:36:33
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answered by ? 6
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Races don't matter when it comes to self esteem. It is about habit. If you got into a relationship with someone that used to date a person that never complimented her then yes, it is going to make her uneasy when you start doing it. It kind of makes it seem like you want something because you are nice. It isn't the women that are sabotaging their self esteems to seem to men like you that they are crazy. You need to be a little more patient and stop going after battered women. You obviously need to find a girl that hasn't been in a bad relationship no matter if she is white, black, yellow, or purple.
2006-09-10 12:43:21
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answered by Anonymous
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Do ALL white women have low self-esteem?
No, not ALL of us do. There is a name for people who generalize a group of people...
I do find most men have a certain 'type' of women they seem to date over and over...step out of your box, and stop being closed minded, and maybe you will find a decent woman, of any color. Perhaps try an english class as well.
2006-09-10 12:39:22
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answered by Nikki T 4
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This is not a problem with Caucasian (white) women, but many women. It's not just about low self-esteem either. Many women do not know how to be gracious and accept kindness and compliments from others, especially men. They may feel that men have some ulterior motive or agenda, usually sexual, because of past experience. Unfortunately, it sounds like you are paying the price now for the bad behavior of men in the past of these women.
Another factor is feminism. Many women who describe themselves as feminists have a hard time accepting compliments or kindess, misconstruing it as chauvinistic behavior. This is unfortunate.
Women from other cultures or ethnicities are not as influenced by the negative stereotypes and misconceptions that many "white" women fall prey to in our society. However, there are good women in any culture or ethnicity, and they are out there for happy, healthy relationships with caring, kind people such as you. Best of luck, but do be careful.
2006-09-10 12:34:17
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answered by Anonymous
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That is odd. Maybe because they are threatened by other races. Simply because there are taking all the good white males.
Maybe they have a inferiority complex maybe they feel better being with another race.
2006-09-10 12:36:27
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answered by de_dark_angel71 3
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Hell no we dont have low self esteem ,I guess you just don't know how to pick a nice woman ,maybe your the one whose to blame you sound a little nuts to me, judging all white woman from only dating 3 give me a break.
2006-09-10 12:40:21
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answered by ? 4
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don't generalize. You don't know all white women. That would be like saying all white men have small penis's. Maybe you are just picking the wrong women.
2006-09-10 12:43:08
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answered by Anonymous
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I would suggest, if you are seeking a lady of a different culture or race, check into that culture, beliefs, traits and habits first.
2006-09-10 12:37:01
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answered by dickie 1
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do* u can't say all, u ignorant fool. Maybe she just doesn't like it. Crazy? um no. That is stupid just because of one or two or three women. There's millions not that way. U should be smarter then that.
2006-09-10 12:36:12
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answered by samantha wilson 5
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I'd have to agree with you on this one, dude. My wife was small with small ****, and she thought the world and God hated her, that she was trash, and that i was too. I don't know what it is with them.
2006-09-10 13:26:55
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answered by zelgadiss 4
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