well long story short my ex from 2 years ago he left me to be with my friend then we hooked up again while him and my friend were together then they broke up and we never talked again well now i live in a digfferent state and hes single we started talking as friends and hes so much hotter than he was before well when i go back to visit he wants me to go visit him im scard because i still love him hes my first love and when i go see him i know ill have those feelings again and it will never work so i dont know if i should go to see him or not i know ill be tempted and i dont want to put us in that situation HELP?
2006-09-10 11:58:43 · 4 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hot or not...just leave it alone..if he cheated on you with your friend, he will cheat on you again.
2006-09-10 12:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by shiner 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think if he was with a friend of your then i would not go to see him...he hurt you once why would you want to let him do it again...i can not talk because i have did the same thing...but nothing good came of it...i do not like to see my fellow women hurt because i have been hurt so much myself...but the decision is yours to make....and i hope that whatever you choose you do not let your self be hurt by him again....my bestfriend went out with the man i loved and that i had a child by....i have never put a lot of faith in best friends...but i would not do to them what has been done to me...but i think we need to guard our hearts too...oh i forgot to say she married him but the marriage did not last very long at all....but we are not friends at all now either....
2006-09-10 19:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go see him until you can put your feelings in check. you need to feel him out first before letting your feelings loose.
2006-09-11 05:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by Forever Looking 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your heart as tough as a stone!Do not go back to him he cheated you with a friend. walk proudly girl.....
2006-09-10 19:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by hristos_88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋