Is it improper etiquette to tell a friend who just came over to my house from church and i tell them that was pointless. Is that rude to there beliefs? Discuss.
2006-09-10 11:25:31 · 18 answers · asked by atheist4u 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Yes, that is rude to their beliefs. Each person is entitled to his or her own beliefs. Let them believe what they want. Going to church may be pointless to you but it may have higher meaning to them.
2006-09-10 11:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mint 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 01:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always improper to be rude to a friend, or to be discourteous to them because of their deeply held beliefs.
If your friend came from church simply to visit you, that's one thing. If your friend came over right after church to try and convert you, that was rude on their part. However, if they are being rude, you have no reason to stoop to their level. You can simply listen to them politely, and then thank them for sharing their information, but point out to them that you are an atheist for a reason, namely the reason that you have already made up your mind, and that you would prefer not to hear a repeat of their sermon. Ask them to please leave religion off the agenda the next time they come to visit. Make it clear that you like them, but that you must agree to disagree on the religion issue. If they can't handle that, they aren't really your friend.
If you are going to be friends, you both have to agree to respect the other's position. That means that they can tell you about their beliefs, and how they feel about them, but they should not try and convert you. Similarly, he or she should be willing to hear you speak of your beliefs, but you should not try to convert them. Sometimes in relationships you just have to agree not to argue about some things for the sake of the friendship.
2006-09-10 11:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by Bronwen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not rude. You have your own set of beliefs and if you tell someone that you don't want to discuss their religion, they should respect that. But if you were discussing being an atheist first, the other person has the right to bring up their religion. In other words, if you do not want to discuss religion, don't discuss atheism either.
2006-09-10 11:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by RKC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Mint, and Disagree with Dellow.
Obviously this person cares for your well being. If you value your friend, you should be compassionate to their feelings, and let them know you might be open for discussion.
What denomination is your friend? There is a fine line between religion, and relationship. I.E., Jesus isn't a RELIGION, He's a RElationship!
How many Muslims do you *know* that claim they have the same thing? How 'bout Buddists? Any other 'religion'?
Do not fear the Truth.
2006-09-10 11:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending upon what this persons life style is.If she is a true church going person and lives a religious life then maybe it was improper etiquette.If she is like most people that go to church, its probably more for show and social benefit.
2006-09-10 11:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a social clod. These people came to visit you, to see you and you belittle their beliefs? Who raised you, a pack of wolves? It's not just bad etiquette. It's unbelievably rude.
2006-09-12 15:41:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's also pointless you can't change people's religious beliefs. You're better off just not even talking about it. Just let them believe what they want and leave them to it.
2006-09-14 06:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very rude. I'm guessing from you nickname that you're atheist. How would you feel if you went to your friends house and she just outright said "atheism is pointless" how would you feel? I think you owe her an apology.
2006-09-10 11:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by songbird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it was very ride of you. If you were any kind of friend at all you would respect the fact that your friend had beliefs. She obviously respects you and don't throw religion in your face, you should do the same for her if you truly respect the friendship.
2006-09-10 11:32:19 · answer #10 · answered by creeklops 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋