im usually an expert on this but i like this complex guy -hes so cute!!- hes been my friend until he got his new gf but now he wont even talk to me. and he stares at me all the time.does he like me and his gf tell him not to talk to me or what??? HELP!!
2006-09-10 11:17:20 · 13 answers · asked by classychick06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's staring at you, he's interested -- you know that.
Odds are, he's being faithful to his new girlfriend and does not want to add any confusion to the relationship. His friendship with you might be a thorny issue with his girlfriend, tho I doubt it. He's just being a good guy to his new lady friend!
2006-09-10 11:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you break up with him? If you did it in public or in any way that would embarrass or hurt him then he could just not like you anymore.
I can be sure that his new girlfriend is telling him to stay away from you, but it may be only subconsciously. It's part of women's genes. They are biologically geared to reproduction and that includes capturing and keeping the attentions of a mate. Once a woman has a good potential mate then they will use any measure to fight off the competition, and there has to be a lot of competition because they think they have a good potential mate.
All of this is going on in her subconsciousness and she may not even be aware of it. Your interest in your old boy friend could come from your subconscious desire to win a good mate as well. Since he has a new girlfriend he must be a good potential mate.
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2006-09-10 18:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you, because usually when guys stare at you that's what it means. I am guessing that his gf tells him not to talk to you. He talked to you before he got a gf, so it is probably the gf fault for him not talking to you. I think that you should just go up to him and start talking to him. Good Luck.
2006-09-10 18:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by dancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he probably liked you, but now he's giving time to somebody else. I bet he regrets not acting on feelings for you when he had the chance, but that's the way it goes sometimes.
You can have all the chemistry, great sex, plenty in common, but if the timing is off it won't go anywhere. Life is ironic, and timings a m*****f*****. Sorry, but you wouldn't be the first to experience how timing can mess things up.
Live your own life, be patient- if they break up, and you guys discover you still have a connection, then it'll be all the sweeter. If not, there's always next lifetime, eh?
2006-09-10 18:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regardless of whether he likes you are not the only thing that you should see is the big sign on his forhead "TAKEN." He is in a relationship right now...so the only thing that you need to do is stop thinking about him and get yourself a beau of your own. It is not going to help you if you are pinning over some guy that has a girl. Who cares if his g/f doesn't want him talking to you...that is her insecurity and her call..not yours. It is his call to listen to what she says...so suck it up and move on sister...you are just wasting your time with this one.
2006-09-10 18:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by Natty137 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend. Stay away for now because you'll get hurt. If he tries to make a pass at you, stay away too, because if he has a girlfriend and is making moves on you, who's to say he won't do that to you in a future relationship?
He might like you, but keep away romantically unless he becomes single.
2006-09-10 18:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably that his new gf knows you have feelings for him. It's best to move on because you wouldn't want your bf to hang out with his female friend that has a crush him. Do you?
2006-09-10 18:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by Believe me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I forgot, how cute guys are! Find someone else! It's not like there aren't 50 other guys that probably like you. Find one with a heart, that's more important than a cute face!
2006-09-10 18:23:45 · answer #8 · answered by Adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So the guy makes good eye contact and now he's in love with you? I think your stretching on this one. He dosn't talk to you because he HAS A GIRLFRIEND. Thats all you need to know.
2006-09-10 18:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by Mike C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on with your life dont even look at him(he could be thinking you are staring at him) , could be,but dont chase , now while he has someone,if he like or need you he talk to you,he made that new rule and chose to keep the distance,it up to him to change it.
2006-09-10 18:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by aqua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋