so i used to really like this guy, but then i realized that he is shallow and only cares about what people are on the outside. he acts so fake, and it really makes me mad. i used to think that he liked me too, because he'd be looking at me a lot, and he still does it. but then i realized that he's popular, and i'm not that social, meaning i don't hang out with the popular squad. last year i thought that he liked me, since he figured out my name without me telling him. i thought i liked him this year, but i've realized that i probably don't. we have a class together and there's 3 popular girls in it from his group. he didn't even say hi to me this year and doesn't talk to me. but when those girls aren't looking, i can see him looking at me. i'm not really sure what he wants right now. what should i do?
2006-09-10 11:04:32 · 24 answers · asked by Maria18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Eegad, don't try to compete for a superficial guy. If a guy honestly likes you he will humiliate himself to get YOU, and only YOU. No games. I would say go about your normal business, and if he comes around, then give him the attention he deserves...but don't act desperate. This is a girl's worst mistake for a number of reasons.
Hope this helps.
2006-09-10 11:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by Chistiaŋ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls like you pissed me off when I was in school! Screw him, he could care less about you! And what about you? I bet there is some guy out there who feels the same way you do. But you don't talk to him either. So wait for the guy who don't care for you and be unhappy. These are the best years don't waste them on someone who won't talk to you because you are not in the click!
2006-09-10 11:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by Adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that you care far more than you should. There are plenty of other men out there. You can't let this man waste anymore time on him. Get out there and start meeting other men and people. As soon as you do, I am certain you will forget all about him. I would also stop looking at him to see if he is looking at you.
2006-09-10 11:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by funwittythatsme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a joke" he's trying to play, better move on before you gets hurt. I'm sure there's other guys out there that will like you and let you know it. so you don't have to think it. who needs a popular guy anyway, popular guys always puts himself first. i think you should be number one don't you?
2006-09-10 11:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are he really likes you but if your not very social he doesnt want the popular girls to know that. everyone knows that popular girls have claws..... and sometimes so do unpopular girls. trust me on this one.he has to be away from them for more than 35 minutes and he will probably talk to you. hpe this helps, good luck!!
2006-09-10 11:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by classychick06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell u what u should do gurl it shouldnt matter if u r popular or not if he really liked u he would show better sighns like if he is shy to do certain things cause u is around well dat maybe a sighn but hey could like u just think dat u dont like him it could be either one well u have to really decide i cant make the choices for u
2006-09-10 11:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by baby reece 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay girl head up... when hes alone go up to him and tell em wats up and ask him out .. if he says no then just leave it alone and focus on someone that iz not so popular cuz in the end all the girls are gonna be hattin on you ... JUS GO 4 IT and quit bein so insicure believe in yourself and push those popular girls aside and show em wats up... u kno jus keep it coo and do everything you can to get him to notice you.
2006-09-10 11:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a dork. Maybe try to be a little more sociable, and just work up the courage to confront him and ask him how he feels. If he's mean about it, then he's a total moron. Good luck!!
2006-09-10 11:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by Harsh Noise Wall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try saying hello to him. He is probably afraid that if he doesn't stick to what his group does then he could become an outcast. You never really know what another person is thinking.
2006-09-10 11:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by Leighbucks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him and find someone that accepts you for who your are. His day will come for treating you like that, Karmic justice will get the best of him.
Take care and good luck in find that special person.
2006-09-10 11:08:50 · answer #10 · answered by de_dark_angel71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋