It seems that way to me,I recently made the descision to date guys around my own age like 18 to 23(im 19), and the guys I date now are so much more fun then the guys I used to date who were in their 30s to early 40s, even though the guys I date now dont have as much money as the older guys, im kinda ok with it since we have a lot of fun, and not just in a sexual way either
2006-09-10 11:00:56 · 23 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I prefer them young myself.
2006-09-10 11:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by queenblafalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if your 19 and you where trying to date 30-40 year olds, no wounder your not having fun!! date a guy that is 2-3 years older than you (or the same age or younger, just a bit younger not a lot) that way you are into the same things you know things that are common for your age group, and the hole money thing, think the older ones were young and almost broke too, the younger ones will eventually get more money!
2006-09-10 11:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by dixie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well older men have a lot more to offer in a dating scenario... If they take you to dinner...the restaurant doesn't have a drive thru, if they take you to a movie it's probably not at the $1.00 discount movie theatre. They can afford to take you places you could only dream about if you were dating a younger man. And finally...older men have much more experience sexually and generally can do a much better job pleasing you...not just themselves which younger guys seem to do. Of course younger guys are always ready... but usually only care about getting in and getting off.+
You'll have to decide, because let's face it... even with all the advantages... older men holding your hand will invite looks from passer-bys. If you can live with that... choose the older guy! BTW I'm in my 40s and available...lol.
If you choose younger, I have a son thats 22...lol.
2006-09-10 11:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman in her early thirties I would say YES younger men...IF they are mature for their ages are a LOT of fun to date. They are tuned into what you want, less rigid, express appreciation for you more and a bunch of other plusses. Still when I'm single I don't date them. I sometimes look at them like delicious scoops of ice cream but I'm on a diet :(. Why don't I date them? Well the money thing is a big deal for me. I don't like being taken to Arby's on every date. Next I've run into some who seemed very mature but in the end did not have the emotional maturity to support anything deep. Once when I was 28 I let a 19 yr old that worked out at my gum and looked like an Adonis talk me into a date. He was awesome on the date, took me to a beautiful, pricy place, was a perfect gentleman and kept me laughing all night. One month later we were exclusively dating and he started saying "I love you" to me. I would just say "thank you". I wasn't ready to go there yet. Once night he calls me and says that since I don't love him he's going to KILL HIMSELF!! I sent the cops over there ASAP. They it looked like he was going to hang himself in his aunt's basement. He's was OK and ordered to counseling. I knew then that this was my last May/December romance Or maybe I would go for a May/October (LOL). I definately know I'll never go younger than 24 again!
2006-09-10 11:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kaitlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depends on what u mean by younger it depends if ur 18 dateing younger guys is illegal. i am 21 and my husband is 26 so id have to say my age and older. but not into there 40s by then thay normaly melow down. i always dated guys older than me
2016-03-27 05:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All this has more to do with preference than age! It's really that simple.
Now if your looking to be well kept, then older is better, you go to
Clubs where older wealthy men hang out!
The young men sure can't provide very well for you, that's for sure. About the only thing they have a lot of, is hot air!
2006-09-10 11:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that what you are finding is not less fun, but the older guys wanting to find someone to settle down with, not so much casually dating.
2006-09-10 11:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jason 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not all about the money... Older guys are more mature and they have a lot of experience and know what to say and do...I think we mustn't exaggerate the guys must be older than us 10 years most
2006-09-10 11:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, older guys have more expeience, but younger guys are better looking and a bf and gf could go through different experiences together. So it all depends.
2006-09-10 11:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what u want out of a guy. older have more experience and will be able to take better care of you. younger ones are faster on the draw-if u know what i mean.
2006-09-10 11:05:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
definately!! :) I am 26 and my husband is 23! He is my best friend now , and when we first started dating, we were all about having a good time! Its never ending! Why date someone who wants to sit at home watching tv on the weekends! :) Live a little!!
2006-09-10 11:04:18 · answer #11 · answered by **dougzangel** 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋