He was sexually abused as a child, but he has hurt 700 women and made 300 women cry right in front of him. He became a born again Christian a year and a half ago but he still looks at other women like he wants to jump their bones. I know he loves me and wants me to have his children but I am scared and sometimes feel like I am on some sort of job interview. HELP!!!!
2006-09-10 10:50:48 · 38 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am scared he might dump me like he did with all those other women.
2006-09-10 10:53:23 · update #1
By the way gd, I am not a freak.
2006-09-10 10:56:50 · update #2
I don't have any stds.
2006-09-10 11:30:04 · update #3
Thanks foe everyone's advice, I NEED IT !
2006-09-10 11:30:58 · update #4
Both of you should go for counselling, him for his problems and you to just be there for him!
2006-09-11 01:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by Nick B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When did he find time to go establish relationships sufficiently deeply with 1000 women to hurt or make them cry? (NB 700 hurt + 300 cry = 1000 not 1300)
I think some one is exaggerating - I mean 1 relationship per week would take 20 years so that's nonsense.
You have a guy with issues, I'd say get him counselling and don't marry him till he is more stable especially as you basically don't trust him.
2006-09-10 11:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has slept with 1300 women (which I seriously doubt), then the thing I'd be most worried about is getting tested for HIV. Honey, if he's still looking at other women, and makes you feel like you're on a job interview, I would give him back his ring and say, "Happy Hunting"!
2006-09-10 10:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there is no way those numbers are real. How could he possibly even know that many women, and why was he keeping count? Notwithstanding that obvious exaggeration, you should run like hell from this character. It doesn't seem like he really is all that much better yet.
2006-09-10 10:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy!?! Dump him. At the very least he needs to know how it feels to be dumped. This is too much for you to deal with, as he is obviously not okay yet. Tell him to get help and call you when he's fixed.
P.S.--get tested for STDs, especially HIV.
2006-09-10 10:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by theobromo77 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he has no reason to be hurting people. That isnt gonna make his past go away. He is just creating pain for others in hopes of making himself feel better. There are so many good men out there. Dont waste anymore time on this jerk. Let him find the help he needs.....D-U-M-P H-I-M!!!!!
2006-09-10 10:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by **dougzangel** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe b4 u do that, take him to a Relationship help thingy to see if he's really commited to you... and only you. I have no idea what number that would be to call the Relationship help thingy... maybe go to a local church (if ur a Christian, which i think you are) but if he's a Christian, he should be OK, but if you're not sure... well, im not going to repeat myself!
Good Luck!!
2006-09-10 10:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god are u for real?go and get urself a life and a man cos clearly ur makin this **** up!
1300 women?!hahahahahaha yeah ur a worse fool to think people believe that
2006-09-10 10:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So -let me get this straight----He had sex with a woman EVERY NIGHT for over 4 years!???...sounds a little far-fetched.
How could you let yourself get with a dude like this.
If you feel like this now--wait until after 10 years of marriage.
RUN--RUN---RUN!!
2006-09-10 10:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better take he to get a aids test b4 you marry her especially if when you had sex with her she didnt even bother asking 4 a condom cause that means he did the same with other!! why not marry someone you no that if you go shoping ,he might run in to someone who had sex with him b4 inbarriesing!
2006-09-10 10:55:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he made 300 women cry did he count those amounts
2006-09-10 11:02:15 · answer #11 · answered by nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋