im not interfearing at all,i am being supportive and i hope shes happy.i think shes rushing it but i wont tell her because i dont want her to feel noones on her side
2006-09-10 10:50:34 · 10 answers · asked by NICHOLA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
cos its none of your damn buisiness
2006-09-10 10:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is your best friend or a long time friend and you trust eachothers opinions and are like sisters and share eachothers dreams and goals.
Then yes and no that you have the right to tell her what to do. but if you feel uncomfortable around the guy that you have the right to be honest with her . if she can't accept it tell her that you'd feel comfortable only to spend time with her alone with out him there even when the get married .
If you have those sames feelings when it comes to the way he treats her or you . then yes but she may not like it or your freindship might die for awhile but you'll be friends in the long run even if you speak for awhile.
I had the same type of thing happen to me but after some time they knew they had to accept him for me the friend.
but if it's due to a child or there young in love and not really inlove with eachother and mostly for the sex. in the confines of marriage then yes. but if they truly love eachother and are both happy then no just have to deal with it and be happy for her you'd want the same back if it was you in her shoe's.
be strong and remember true friendships go beneath the surface of a truer friend for life.
some of the hardest things in life if letting someone you love make a choice that you might other wise not. and to have to supprt them in a way that will seem hard. but you will over come it bye being an example to them.
good luck maybe you could write her a personal letter telling her how you feel might ease the tension of face to face but be willing to let her come talk to you about . open and honestly
2006-09-10 11:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by d_a_truckergal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If that is your friend, and you all are extremely close then you will know whether or not it is appropriate to ask her about her decision to get married. If you all are close then you should also know the best way to ask her so that her feelings will not be hurt and that she will not feel as if you are accusing her of making a bad decision.
2006-09-10 12:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by Charlee's Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't terrible, you just think its fast and want to know if others agree. Support your friend, but I agree, sounds like she is rushing it.
Don't listen to the people critizing, according to them it isn't there business to judge you.
2006-09-10 11:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're truly friends, and you truly feel she's rushing it, you are obligated, as a friend to tell her. Do the right thing.
2006-09-10 10:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody is bashing you for caring. All that is being said, is that it's her wedding, so she needs to be the one to decide if she is ready for it or not.
There is nothing wrong about you worring about it at all.
2006-09-10 13:18:14 · answer #6 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe people dont think that for asking if she should.....maybe they think that always and this just opened your eyesto it. cause it really isnt something people would judge you by so they mustve had an opinion allready
2006-09-10 10:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not terrible you actually care about your friend good for you forget the others.
2006-09-10 10:55:16 · answer #8 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask them if they know somthing about your friend
2006-09-10 10:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by Hussain N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos you is nosy.
2006-09-11 01:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋