my bf of five months dumped me after i got a positive pregnancy test 3 actually. i felt sad and alone he told me no guy would ever date me . i decided to go out and flirt to prove him wrong and ended up meeting someone else that i met at my college orientation he asked me out and we totally hit it off he know nows i am pregnant and awnts to now if we can have sex?is it okay for the baby?i am nervous i have only ever had sex with one guy and am not sure if i want too? not sure if i am emotionally perpared for this.
2006-09-10 10:49:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not a slut only had sex once with my ex. bf and want my new guy to stick around so i dont have to be alone and pregnant
2006-09-10 10:53:22 · update #1
you sound like a real sl.ut
2006-09-10 10:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Yes it is safe for the baby.
Isn't it to soon to have sex with him if you just met him didn't you learn this from the last night? And what if he just wants to have sex with you because you cant get pregnant, because you already are with someone elses baby.
Also becareful of STD's they only test you once during your pregnancy.
I wouldnt do it though. Not this soon anyhow. What would people think.
2006-09-10 11:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by mellow_26241 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex should not hurt your baby/babies! Get a doc and follow his/hers instructions!
After you have the child/children you need to get on birth control and stay on it! No birth control, at some point pregnancy
With the talk that goes on, Remember the guy didn't make the baby by his self! You are just as much at fault as he is! It's your body, protect it in the future!
2006-09-10 10:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, it won't hurt the baby you only really need to be careful in the last trimester. But.....don't we think we've had enough "fun" for a bit? I don't think you should, besides what kind of question is that from a guy anyway, can we still have sex? Tell "my crotch if on fire" that your not ready, and see how long he sticks around first.
2006-09-10 10:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by brooklynsss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First go see your doctor. Second, do you really need to sleep with this guy? Third, what are you trying to prove and to who? Your bf has already dumped you. Move on with your life and think about the child in your womb. The right man will come along who will love you and the baby.
2006-09-10 10:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by Faith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"not sure if i want too? not sure if i am emotionally prepared for this."
just read what your wrote yourself
if your so nervous and your not emotionally ready and your worried about your baby then don't do it.
It's your choice in the end do what you are comfortable with and feel is right. I am happy your are continuing your life on and going to college!
But really sweetie any guy who can't wait for you to be ready for a step like that isn't for you and doesn't respect and love you like someone should.
your beautiful and worth waiting for.
good luck
2006-09-10 10:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by Coxie Megan 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would make sure you really want to do this, your question gave me the impression that you're only doing this for him. Don't sleep with this guy to get back at your deadbeat ex. Focus on becoming a good mom right now, sort yourself out.
2006-09-10 10:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by Amy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would ask your DR and he/she can tell you if it safe or not for the baby how wonderful that this current guy is more supportive of you he wants to take care of you and the baby right he is not using you for sex I hope not !!
2006-09-10 10:51:19 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you've answered you're own question sweetie. You're not emotionally ready. If you were,you wouldn't have mentioned that. I'm sure once you're into your pregnancy it's ok to have sex, but like I said...I don't think you're ready. When you're ready,you'll know.Don't feel pressured. Good luck :)
2006-09-10 10:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by *Juicy Princess* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i was you, i would want to play it safe and not have sex because who knows what that might do to your baby. If your bf has a problem with it, you should discuss the problem with him like a real couple should.
2006-09-10 10:53:17 · answer #10 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm if you your pregnant then dont even bother doin that. but what you need to do is see about ur baby and see if the dumass that dumped is gunna take care of it instead of you actin childish tryna prove him wrong, and the dude that ur tryna consider have s e x with. that was a really dumb question of him to ask actually its kinda sick. O.O
2006-09-10 10:54:28 · answer #11 · answered by ɷ▫▪вяøκeи;;♥ иøт đefeαтeđ▪▫ɷ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋