theyre getting married in october,she dosent seem sure to me and her mum and sisters think she should wait.she has a four year old daughter.what do you think?
2006-09-10 10:21:33 · 19 answers · asked by NICHOLA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I think that she should wait also. I think she is crazy for doing what she is doing. Most relationships like that do not end happily ever after, especially if you do not know that person well enough. But if she is happy, what can you do?
2006-09-10 10:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by wrestlinguy85 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that they are moving a little fast.
I also think that this is her life and her decisions. As a friend, you need to be supportive. Even if you don't approve, you should still be there for her. You especially need to be there for her on her wedding day.
I'm sure that she already knows that some people disapprove, she doesn't need it harped on. The more someone objects, the more she will be determined to marry him, and possibly shut these people out of her life after the wedding.
2006-09-10 17:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that it is none of your business. I met my now huband on October 1st and we were engaged on October 25th. We have been married nearly a year and we are happier now than we've ever been in our lives. When you know, you just know. I lost friends over my wedding because they couldn't mind their own business or keep their mouths shut. Becareful that you don't lose your friend.
2006-09-10 22:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by mrslang1976 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your friend sounds irrational and desperate. of course, you don't want to be so blatant with her. as amicably and caring as possible, you should try to talk some sense into her. let her know that if she truly loves this person that much and she is absolutely positive she wants to marry him, there is no rush to get married. encourage them to get to know each other better and spend time together without any marital obligations. also, let her know, that she shouldn't be so quick to make a life changing commitment since she not only has herself to worry about, but more importantly, she has her daughter to worry about.
2006-09-10 22:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by Peanuts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she is the one getting married let her be the one to judge if it's the right time or not. Something things just feel right for the couple.
2006-09-10 17:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is her decision afterall. If she feels that she is ready--great. But has anyone taken the time to talk to her and ask her how she feels about getting married so soon? If you were truly her friend, you would have done so by now.
2006-09-10 17:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly,I'm sure you're just trying to look out for her,but it's none of your business. As long as you've offered your opinion and advice,that's about all you can do. Support her no matter what decision, bc she is your friend
2006-09-10 17:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by *Juicy Princess* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess she is desperate
Does the father know she moved a strange man she only knew for 2 weeks in with his daughter?
2006-09-10 17:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by Addie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats nobodys buisness but hers. Let her make her own mistakes. Do you really think you can make someone break up and not get married when they want to?
2006-09-10 17:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This answer is for both your questions. Its none of your business. No one asked your opinion. If she's not going to listen to her mother, she's not going to listen to anyone.
2006-09-10 23:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋