i have this boyfriend and we broke up once and he tryed to get my sister in bed with him we got back together and i just found out about it today he says he loves me and sh*t and i do want to be w/him but i cant so i nees help on how to break up with him w/out balwing... ideas anyone?
2006-09-10 10:10:44 · 5 answers · asked by briana m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you dont want to face him, leave him a note, do it on the phone, e-mail, anything like that. Then just ingore him and if you know he is going to be somewhere you be somewhere else.
He sounds like a real loser, like he is only after one thing. Dumping him sounds really smart of you. Because guys like that can hold you back. And im sure you can find someone better then him!
2006-09-10 10:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by mellow_26241 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Odds are he tried to get your sister into bed to get back at you and make you angry for the 1st break up. If you care about him, why not just put it behind you and put it down to bad judgement (and be glad you have a sister who refused him and kept it to herself all this time - there are lots of sisters who would have slept with him or would have come running to rub your nose in it).
If you really feel you must break it off, you can always send him and email or a letter - that way if you cry, he won't see it. Then once you have gotten the worst out of your system, you can talk to him and say "I have said all that I want to say in the letter - it is over" and walk away, so he can't see your pain.
Peace!
2006-09-10 17:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you don't want to see him anymore and be firm and end it.
2006-09-10 17:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by vlg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say goodbye to him without hurting his feelings
2006-09-10 17:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by The Duke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that it's over
2006-09-10 17:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋