I know its good to tell someone that you love them cause it might be to late...but i would like to no more about "If you love someone tell them"......and i would like to know who h ad experience this.
2006-09-10 10:08:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Quotations
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I am not sure anymore if one should tell someone that you love them. But then again it depends on what kind of love you are thinking of. I tell my brother that I love him and also some really special friends. But I don't think that is what you have in mind. I had dated a lady for 5 or 6 months and we really had a great connection. We were very close and did everything together, even working in her woodshop and shopped at Lowes. Made dinners together and went to eat together. There was very little that we did not share and were also intimate. But one afternoon I was leaving to go home and feeling very warm and bubbly inside, I told her that I loved her. Well that was the end of a great relationship. She said that I was so much further along than she was, and didn't want to go there. So, go figure. When do you tell someone that you love them. If it is the kind of love that you would put your life on the line for them, I feel lthat you should tell them, and hope that you don't offend them. Sometimes Love is a word that is used way too freely. If you don't feel it in your heart, then dont say it.
2006-09-10 10:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by Al s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stating I love you, if it is true is very difficult. It feels as if we are sharing our vulnerabiity. We are telling nother that we are committed, connected and vulnerable. It is very scary. However, if the other person feels the same way, it allows them to not feel as scared. They will feel encouraged, not only to reciprocatae the statement, but to demonstrate more love and affection and attention Otherwise, they will hold back, or feel that if it is not a reciprocal relatioinshop why stay in it, becaue they are vullnerable as well. It is never tooo late. Even if the relationship is over, you can confirm for that person, that you were afraid and sorry that you never opened your motuh, but your heart was lalways open. If that person is open to receiving this information, it is a good way to begin again
2006-09-17 07:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by rachel l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels good to know that someone else loves you. It feels nice to know that you are cared for by someone else, doesn't it? If we never hear those words, we walk around asking ourselves, "Why should I go on living when no one cares about me?"
When you know someone loves you, it gives your life a purpose, some meaning, something to live for. Once you have this overwhelming desire for someone and you feel like you can't live without them, you need to tell them or they may move on to someone else. It's our way of protecting and keeping a monogamous relationship. I think it's innate to do this and I think that's why so many songs, plays, films, books, etc are based on love. It's such a complicated emotion, we just can't seem to figure it out.
2006-09-18 05:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this might not be exactly the "love" you are talking about but here it goes.
I do think you should tell someone you love them because you might never get the chance to tell them ever! I had a rough relationship with my dad. At the end, we started to get to know each other..I never had the chance to say I love you..he passed away..now all I have is regrets..and although those that care about me say..you can say it he can hear it, he knew it..blah blah..its not the same. I just with I had..so do not pass it up..If you love someone..TELL THEM! You might not get a 2nd chance.
2006-09-16 00:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by Ness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is short, when you just go out on the road and see an accident- it makes you wonder. One moment one is here the next... so I believe you have to say that whenever you can to let those you know and care about know how much you care for them. You leave very valuable words behind and nothing is more worth than that not even gold.
2006-09-17 20:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by VelvetRose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I think u should tell someone u love them because if u wait it might be too late to say it to them afterward.But i never say it would be easy but u have to try because u will never know if they want to tell u that but the might be scared too.So give it a try!GOODLUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
2006-09-10 10:25:01 · answer #6 · answered by Trina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell someone you love them before it is to late. you will feel better & so will yhe one you told.
2006-09-17 07:10:18 · answer #7 · answered by Tired Old Man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to you......but if you do love them, I'm sure they'd love to know, especially if they love you too.
2006-09-17 07:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they know how u feel
2006-09-10 10:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋