i liked this girl soo much,,,she was awesome,,but we were at the beach once and i was shocked too see her armpits unshaved ,,it was so not kool,,it really turned me off,,,i dono wat happened to me that day,,,,i dont like her anymore now,,,,,i just told her somthin came up and i went and never came back,,,,,,,is the way i felt usual,,,,
2006-09-10 10:08:29 · 32 answers · asked by becks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whether or not a woman shaves is a personal choice. And you don't have to date a woman who doesn't shave if you choose not to.
I don't like guys who don't shave their privates.
2006-09-10 10:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww. That poor girl probably knows why you left and acted funny afterwards. You seem really young by the way you wrote. But even young guys have flaws. If you want your girl to have no flaws then you can't have flaws either.
I hope guys learn from this and not expect a girlfriend when they have a FULL BEARD as if a woman would be attracted to that or how about guys who have yellow fuzzy teeth and still have the nerve to approach a girl for a date, or how about male pattern baldness, real hot, eh?
A friend of mine who heads a women's rights group had the hairiest armpits ever and always wears tank tops in public and her boyfriend is so hot, he loves her individuality. But if that is not your thing, then that is okay. Maybe see if she is willing to shave if you will still like her otherwise and she has no problems with it.
Just don't be that guy who later down the road acts like no woman is supposed to turn him down for his flaws and pretend that women don't really know what they want and that a man has to show them. Trust me, we know what we want, and it's NOT a full beard. Gross rat's nest spun from a Brillo Pad!
2006-09-10 10:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not unusual. Your immediate thoughts were that you didn't expect her to be unshaved, as the vast majority of women are, so it was shocking. Unfortunately, having that much hair there leads to hygiene problems sometimes, as hair will hold a lot of odor. If you can't deal with that, it's better to let it go now. Trust me, you don't have to TELL someone to shave...she knows she should shave her pits. Some women choose not to, and it's okay, but if you're not cool with it, it's good that you let her go now.
2006-09-10 10:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, the answer is No, it is not unusual for someone to be repulsed by a girl with pit hair, but you have to ask yourself this one....is it a regular occurance? I mean, is she copying the french lifestyle, or did she just neglect to shave the stubble before she went to the beach? Not only that but hair is trivial, you can always get someone to get rid of hair... so think about striking up a deal before you send her to left field.
2006-09-10 10:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by Natty137 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well the norm for america is shaved arms shaved legs and most of the time some sort of pubic hair trimming removal thing. so if you have never seen a girl with hairy armpits then yeah it would seem surprizing to you. for me personally as long as she doesnt have stubble im fine with it but thats just me.
2006-09-10 10:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
XXXXXXXXXX it's a peeve for lots of guys to see a womans unshaved armpits. But don't let that stop you from seeing her character and good nature.
2006-09-10 10:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people are just lazy and there is some people that do not beleive in cutting there hair or shaving,it's a religiuos preference of some,I use to know this young lady that I attended college courses with and when she walked in she had a mustache and at first I thought she was a he but it was a girl that did not beleive in cutting or shaving her hair for some reason,yes it is gross to us but everyone is entitled to there religious beliefs or beliefs alone,you have a right to feel what you did,but dont lie to her,just let her know that what you saw or experienced was not at all attractive to your eyes.
2006-09-10 10:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by lil frogger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes very usual you have all the right to be turned off.. i never leave the house with unshaved armpits
2006-09-10 10:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by athina 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's pretty normal. unshaved armpits can turn anyone off- but try not to let that get in the way if you think she's that awesome. talk to her again, maybe she knows you saw them unshaved and is embarressed herself.
2006-09-10 10:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its no longer what maximum persons might want to wish, yet a flat chest hasn't ever stopped me from courting a woman. My suggestion might want to be to eat more desirable nutrients. in case you eating routine too not straightforward/starve your self even as youre youthful it would want to have an result on even if you get curves later. So like I suggested eat a lot more desirable, yet shop it wholesome :)
2016-11-26 00:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by yellowhair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋