he called yesterday and broke up with me, I didn't feel sad, I was still my normal self. Apparently, I had forgot about it until now. am i weird or something? should i be one of those sad grls crying?
2006-09-10 09:57:36 · 27 answers · asked by ♥ Pretty Innocent 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he was always kinda busy. he had sports to play and we would only go out about 4 times a month. i guess he was just my friend. now that i think about it, i only made out woth him twice. i guess we didn't really have a relationship, so that's probably why i'm not sad. anyways, i thought i saw it coming. so, this is probably it?
2006-09-10 10:12:18 · update #1
It all depends on the feelings you had for him. Why did he break up with you. Was he a good boyfriend? Were you going to break up with him anyway? If so then you should be happy. If it was unexpected and you really really had feelings for him, then you obviously should be sad
2006-09-10 10:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
XXXXXXXXXXX actually I applaud you for your strength. Maybe he felt that you weren't giving your all to the relationship. Obviously it's true since you have no ill feelings. Deep down you may wanted to brake up with him but he beat you to the punch and instead of being angry. it's a sigh of relief. He wasn't the one for you. There is someone out there who is. Good luck hun.,
2006-09-10 17:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you now have the freedom to find someone better, and if you feel a little humbled by the experience it might help you not take the right one for granted.
2006-09-10 17:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to be. the crying should happen if it was a surprise and unexpected but if you were just waiting for him to finally break up so you could move on then no you dont need to feel sad at all.
2006-09-10 17:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey you should be happy if the break is ok with you and if it's what you want and, also maybe your not sad yet because it was so sudden to you. maybe you might be sad in the next few days to come.
2006-09-10 17:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by Bold one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be thankful that you are not sad or happy that just means that you didn't really like him an that you weren't having fun with him .... go to the next one and don't even think of him
2006-09-10 17:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by athina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it was a good thing you guys broke up. Obviously your heart wasn't in it. I've had these kinds of breakups where it was relief when we broke up.
2006-09-10 17:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by Serena 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must to be happy because now you have the opportunity to know a better person for you
2006-09-10 17:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not weird, it is obvious that you sensed something wrong with the relationship long ago, because you never let yourself get close to him.
2006-09-10 17:01:59 · answer #9 · answered by eric g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that exactly happened to me on the 8th so yeah but you shouldn't be all sad and everything you should be happy cause your single now
2006-09-10 17:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by Annmarie V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋