My BF refuses to tell me who he's talked to about my best friend's husband. He's told me for quite sometime that my friend's husband has cheated on her. I asked him who told him that, and he said he can't tell me. Well, today it came up again, I asked him who it is and he says if he tells me I'll tell my friend. I won't, because I don't know if it is true, and I wouldn't want to start something. If I was going to tell her, I would have mentioned it by now, so there's no big deal if my BF tells me this girls name or not. I asked him why is he protecting her name, he said he doesn't trust that I won't tell my friend. I pretty much had it w/him any way because of what he did to me in the past. Called a stripper that he met at a strip club for a year. So he thinks that other people cheat. Just really frustrated w/him about alot of stuff.
2006-09-10 09:49:00 · 12 answers · asked by jeep 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yep. leave him. He was being a tease when he bothered to tell you something was up in the FIRST place.. then to not tell you the details. If you aren't going to tell a secret.. then don't tease for pete's sake! I have a secret, I have a secret that I'm not going to share....
Yea, leave him and find someone better. If you marry him...do you think anything will get better? Nope, so start finding someone else now... You've got a secret... you've got a secret. ;)
2006-09-10 09:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes protecting your best friends husband not the woman maybe your bf has been told this by your best friends husband maybe the both of them are at it behind both you or your best friend especially if your bf has done it before i think you should say something to your best friend she has a right to know even if it is just a rumour and maybe she could find out where it is coming from and if he and your bf are cheating on you both get rid of them.
2006-09-10 16:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by luvlifeshell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sounds exactly like mine and I just broke up with mine because he told me that he liked my best friend but not as much as me and has been sleeping with her for weeks but he said that I didn't need to know because I might kick her *** duh I did but my point is that when a big issue comes up and you need to know whats going on he's not going to tell you all the details dump him and find someone that trust you enough to tell you everything.Good Luck
2006-09-10 17:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by amerine09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's more toxic than good to you, then know what to do. Just figure out when and how. Why put up w/so much stress? If these issues r really important to U stand ur ground.
2006-09-10 17:00:00 · answer #4 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my goodness. settle down, Beavis. why are you getting your panties in a knot over the next chick's problems? if you are willing to leave your bf over someone else's infidelity, then do your mate a favor and leave.
2006-09-10 17:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by xknyghtmayre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just 4git about it if u wont tell your friend then there's no need 2 no.
2006-09-10 16:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by Money Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him if you are annoyed/ frustrated with him
2006-09-10 16:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by x3x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-09-10 16:51:22 · answer #8 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him, he sounds like a jerk.
2006-09-10 16:50:56 · answer #9 · answered by annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BREAK UP WITH HIM BECAUSE HE DOESN'T TRUST YOU.
2006-09-10 16:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by true-mysteryfrom chinese wish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋