share your thoughts on what u think makes a great lover, 4 men as 4 women.
could it be the way she moans, thus turning him on even more? or
the fact that he makes her toes curl, and makes her lose control?
2006-09-10 09:47:40 · 13 answers · asked by Alexa L 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being a 'great lover' starts way before the bedroom scene. It starts when the two of you first meet. You get to *know* each others' personna. You get to *know* each other in all forms. You help one another, and protect one another in non violent ways. You Respect one another.
The very first kiss, should be waited for. It should be Loooooooooooooooooong anticipated.
Sex is not a game. It's not a tool. It was designed for a man to share with his wife.
*When* a man truly in his heart loves his woman, he marries her. Their first night together is scarey, full of fumble fingers, and mistakes, but when the couple *learn* each other, it becomes richment.
A man who *truely* loves his wife *knows* her every thought. Even when she may be sad, he approaches her quietly, and soothes her. He dreams and knows every inch of her face, her arms, her hands. He soothes her by his compassionate words, and breathing. He pays every attention to her detail, making sure that *she* has more comfort than he himself. He takes his time. When the two finally do connect to each other, the passion is beyond words.
2006-09-10 10:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, a nice guy seduces a girl he really likes very slowly and a step at a time and only if she is comfortable with what he is doing. Getting physical is done in a private place, with no interruptions and someplace that is reasonably comfortable (not in the front seat of the car). Kissing and hugging will be following stroking on your legs, back, hair. Going further would include clothing be opened, unfastened and/or removed and a lot more touch, rubbing and kissing. If you are at this stage then yes he is seducing you.
2016-03-27 05:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by Martha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what your question is here. Are you asking what we like personally? Or are you asking how to be a good lover?
If it's the first, I like it if she moans a bit and if we move in "tandem". This means that we're in touch with each other, so to speak. This last one is related to if it's the second choice: if you want to be a good lover, you need awareness. Pay attention to him/her. Try new things to see if he/she reacts in a positive or physical way. Also, change things up. If you find something that your loer likes, don't just focus on that 100%. Do it, do something else and come back to it.
2006-09-10 09:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Prior emotional intimacy, as well as attentiveness, knowledge of anatomy and good communication. Making love well is like anything else - the more you learn, the better you'll be, and that applies not only to learning techniques, but much more so to learning about the person you are with and what they like. It's important to meet her needs first, guys. Never be a selfish lover; always put the other person first. Remember that women have the ability to keep going, so don't be afraid to please her early and often.
2006-09-10 09:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by James F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A great lover is someone who pays attention to their partner and learns what turns them on...who is interested in not just pleasing themselves. Skills are learned...no one is a great lover to begin with. We learn.
I think most men like when a woman is expressive in the bedroom..but there are guys who like a woman to be more reserved too...
It's such an individual thing. You react differently to each lover.
2006-09-10 09:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im a girl: A man who makes me c*m before he even penetrates is a good lover.
2006-09-10 09:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by IMHO 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and it is still the way he touches me. It doesn't matter what mood I am in he is just so loving that he makes me melt inside all over again.
2006-09-10 09:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by l_a_hart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a great lover is someone that you have dated for a long time and someone that you trust and a boy thats just not tring to get in your pants
2006-09-10 09:51:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what makes a good lover is the passion they put behind their touch.
2006-09-10 09:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need to know what turns ur lover on then when he or she starts groaning then he or she i in pleasure a lot of pleasure
2006-09-10 09:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by caitlyn 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋