This guy and i used to be best friends in elementary, and Jr. High. he moved to another town our 8th grade yr. but now we are in high school together.Well after he moved ,well actually kind of before ,we started to like each other but i had a boyfriend. We promised each other we would date our freshmen yr. now we are sophomores. and we havent dated. he has a girlfriend(of a long time). but i just dont know how to get over him. The fact is i like him alot, and it doesnt help when we were best friends at one point and now we never talk....What do i do?
2006-09-10 09:43:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This would be really hard. I think that you should tell him how you feel. Maybe he is just waiting around for you to make the first move. On the other hand, move on find someone better for YOU. You may end up happier in the long run.
2006-09-10 09:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by l_a_hart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like the promises you made each other a long time ago just don't really count any more. If he has been with someone a long time, he must be happy with her, and not willing to let go of that.
The fact that you never talk any more also says a lot here. It's clear that he has moved on in his life, and you have to do the same, no matter how painful it is.
The only thing that helps anyone get over someone else is time. Just let time heal it, and eventually you will find another guy who will be crazy about you and vice versa. Once you have found another person, your feelings about this friend will fade. They might never go altogether, but they will seem less devestating.
2006-09-10 16:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by helly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's ment to be then it's ment to be. Right now the best way you can get over him is to start hanging out with your friends more often, get a hobby, do more community service, and help out with clubs on campus. Keeping busy will help you think about him less, and you may even meet somebody else. You'll never know what the the future may hold. Perhaps right now you're not met to be i narelationship, but who knows about later?
2006-09-10 16:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by Marcus O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him when hes alone if he doesn't like you you can move on
2006-09-10 16:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by Vanessa~Yeah!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write down your feelings and get it to him.
2006-09-10 16:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by Re Fined 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all u can do is move on
2006-09-10 16:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by Tori 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋