i barely even know this guys yet i find myself thinking about him all the time. it at times hurts because i know i cant be with him...
2006-09-10 09:41:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've heard it said on a TV documentary that everyone has an invisible scent and that people are attracted to others because of their scent. I wonder.
Why can't you be with him? Is he married? Are you? I think what you are experiencing is a crush. Try not to think about him so much or you're in for a lot of heartache. This is not love - yet. If there's trouble ahead, don't let it become love. Steer clear of him. Good luck. I understand.
2006-09-10 09:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand where you are coming from. I've fallen for a guy of whom doesn't speak the same language as I. Yet, I do know him because I can communicate with him somewhat and I know he is a great individual. Yet I truly care for him and think about him all the time. I think it is quite possible. But, because of our situation I know I can't ever be with him and it hurts a lot. I feel your pain and I'm sorry and good luck with everything and God bless! :)
2006-09-10 09:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are attracted to the person you THINK he is, since you don't really know who he actually is yet.
And/or you have a vision in your head of what your ideal guy would be like, and you are projecting some of your fantasy-guy characteristics on this other guy you barely know. (I've done that myself before!)
2006-09-10 09:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by I ♥ AUG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens, but if you don't know him then you can't have genuine feelings for him, they are just an invention of your head. When you get to know him you might suddenly realise he isn't as great as you think. Or the feeling will go away eventually anyway. You should try and get to know him, maybe you can be with him, if not it will probably help you get over him anyway.
2006-09-10 09:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by DS 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure, you actually are more likely to like a great-looking guy before you get to know what a lame jerk he really is on the inside.
2006-09-10 09:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcoarse its possible,,,esp if hes good lookin..
my advice if hes single u should try to make him fall forya,,,i know u girls can do alot for us guys to fall forya,,,but y cant u be withem,,,,,nothing is possible hun,,,,but becareful ,,coz i had a similar experience witha really hot girl,,but she turned out an air head and so lame wen i actually sat and had a conversation with her,,,,,,good luck anyways
2006-09-10 09:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by becks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like infatuation. Yes, you may be infatuated, but don't confuse that with love.
2006-09-10 09:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by I'm alive .. still 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are infatuated with him.it's not love the sooner you move on the better off you are.if you can't have him.
2006-09-10 09:46:28 · answer #8 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats call lust and its not a good thing mama
2006-09-10 09:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by Rat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the net it is possible.
you can like someone - which is far away from you.
just like to chat with him.
if you will see him - maybe you will not like him....
2006-09-10 09:46:02 · answer #10 · answered by eli a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋