I asked a question earlier, asking how I would get my girl back, who left me after 2 years of dating. She told me to my face that she still loves me and, yes, that she still wants to marry me, but not now, not at this stage in her life and that we could try again later in life.She wants to spend "Her time with her" ( if that makes any sense.) My good friend(a phycologist) told me that she mite be in that 'in between" stage in her life where she had to sort things out for herself before know what she wants in life. I was really good to her, taking her overseas and treated her like an princess. A Queen even. She was my everything.I'm so MADLY inlove with her still. Im afraid I mite loose her forever. I want a 2nd chance, 1 day or another.
2006-09-10 09:28:38 · 11 answers · asked by toodead2bury 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
hey this sound pretty good ,your chance if you play it right,let thing that work work for you,dont call her again, write her a letter(letter have more meaning she will keep it )maybe somehow deliver with flowers(not you)tell that you nderstand,evern how hard it for you , but she come first,that you wait,etc.dont worry love dont change (experance it now) later when you look into her eyes it going to hit hard ,(for both) give her a year or more dont rush her,(lots of time)or she tell you to get lost.
2006-09-10 09:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by aqua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 01:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i've given 2nd, 3rd, and more than i choose to let u kno, but, she will come to u if she wants u.. she may just want to see what other options she has before making the biggest decision of her life... 2 years is a long enough time to really get to know somebody so good luck with that.
2006-09-10 09:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by nadadizzyblonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly believe in second chances. She just need a little "Her Time", something that some men don't understand. Give her space but please don't sit around moping. Go out with friends, try and have some fun and don't worry what she is doing. All in good time, if it is meant to be it will be. Good Luck
2006-09-10 09:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by Pat M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your longing for her. I too still love someone that has chosen to be elsewhere. He says he loves me and misses me but he has to live his life his way.
I am moving on....because I have to. I think you might think about doing the same. If she comes back sometime then you can consider it....but I am willing to bet that if you really let her go, and she does come back you won't want her back.
At least that is what I hope for myself.
2006-09-10 09:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do me and my wife got remarried after 4 years of being divorced, but she may need to experience some things that she cant experience being tied down in a relationship
2006-09-10 09:32:21 · answer #6 · answered by chuck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone eventually gets to that point where they wonder if they might have found someone that they are even more in tune with.
If she comes back - she's yours permanently.
But in the meantime, date a few others casually to see if anyone else might have matched up better with you.
If you don't, you are really just her "reserve" guy. "Oh, I'll marry him if I can't find a better one..."
2006-09-10 09:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by special-chemical-x 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does the term...'wants cake and eat it too'...sound familiar?....You are being 'put on hold' and she wants to see if maybe there are better fish abitin out ther...sorry...I would love to see how she would feel if you turned the tables on her..and see how she responded..she KNOWS you are madly in love with her..but to 'take time off' in between in b.s. in my book...sorry to be so cold about it...but just be careful
2006-09-10 10:28:17 · answer #8 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They need work and trust, if it is messing with your brain. You have to think of your mental health and not your heart. A hard one. Sorry to hear of your peril
2006-09-10 09:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by thecharleslloyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude howd you blow it!? i no this sounds really awful but she might not actually feel the same as you and just trying not to upset you!
2006-09-10 09:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋