My stepdad caught me trying on mum's make-up and I think he made a pass at me. Should I tell my mother?

Question

I'm a bloke, so it's all gotten a bit weird. Should I just forget it?!

And now lyndsey H is stalking me!

Answer 1

Why the hell didn't you go for it? You could of had some fun there!

Answer 2

First of all you have to be really sure on this or all hell will break loose.
Fist off you have to sort out your own sexuality are you gay if so does she know?
Second if he did make a pass at you then your poor mom has two issues to deal with one stepdad is gay and that he made a pass on you and your own sexuality.
If you feel 100% he made a pass then yes you have to tell your mom and when you do be prepared for the worst she will be devestated at both isssues if she has no idea.
Is there anyone else in the family you can talk to first.
What ever the situation mom is going to be hurt with a capital H. She may not believe any of it.

Answer 3

Be prepared for her to be in massive denial...and call you a liar...thats what occurred to me. My mom nevertheless feels undesirable about what occurred and we've an ok relationship for years now. the guy may be further up on prices and do time for this (Which he might want to) He may be abusing another little toddler as I kind, so convinced i might want to tell my mom, get some councelling too (It doesnt harm to communicate although if its with a decrease. Be reliable and dont do something stupid like suicide, you've a huge open e book of existence to write down, yet yaa id tell someone, although if its a councellor at school first.

Answer 4

Hi, yes you should tell your mother as it is wrong if you think he has made a pass at you,as he is your step father. I would also have a word with him and see what he has to say and tell him that it made you feel uncomfortable and for him to leave you alone. I hope you get it all sorted, but dont forget anything as serious as this as matters could only get worse.

Answer 5

Naw, blackpail yeh Da for some sweet toys like an Xbox 360, Motorola Slvr, and a better iPod to get you through your nan's funeral.

That should read blackMAIL

Answer 6

In a previous question you referred to giving up work so I presume you are an adult. If you are not even sure you step dad made a pass at you then either forget it or sort it out with him.

Answer 7

you should tell your mom what happened, and you should be able to talk to your mom about any thing that make you feel funny and especially things like that you say you are a bloke i assume that means your male, and you know what that doesnt matter a bit you should still tell your mom.

Answer 8

I would tell her. If you are unsure about if it was a pass or not ring a helpline first if you like but you need to tell someone. abuse often starts by something that doesn't feel quite right and your not sure about it, once you have accepted i happening it moves one stage further by the time you are abused you feel its your fault and you let it happen or asked for it.

Answer 9

No because you only "think he made a pass". Wait until you know for sure then YOU tell him to get lost and if it happens again tell your mum.

Answer 10

if your mum is the understanding sort, you should tell her. She maybe upset to hear what you have to say, but it is best all round if she knows.
If you cant talk to your mum about this, you should tell your step dad in no uncertain terms to back off, and if you need to, threaten to tell your mum if he does it again.
Good luck.

Answer 11

Yes tell your mum she can give you a good clip round the earhole if your lying