in stockings and the other day he told me that he exs did the same for him (he said this when he had a few drinks)do u think i should carry on with his fantasies
2006-09-10 09:17:55 · 27 answers · asked by yates1239 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because hesays if i wear them they relly turn him on and we rearly have sex with out them
2006-09-10 09:20:52 · update #1
you should definitely wear stockings for him and luckylady is right, he'll probably do whatever you wish at that point. And you should tell him what you want from him at the same time...that's what makes a healthy relationship, when you both are open about these things. Besides, stockings are absolutely the sexiest so why wouldn't you?
2006-09-12 17:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make it as if he was asking you to be tied naked at the bus stop. I wear stockings and a garter belt to my office every day, because I think pantyhose are the most uncomfortable thing ever invented, and I have great legs, and was brought up that it looks ridiculous to be all dressed up in a skirt and heels and no stockings. Personally, I think bare legs makes women look like a streetwalker.
I happen to enjoy wearing stockings, and I have never met a man who was not fascinated by them also. He is not asking for some kinky act, before the god forbidden pantyhose came along everyone wore them. My mother wore them as part of her high school uniform..
Give then a try, you may be pleasantly surprised, and your boyfriend will be ecstatic. If It means anything, I have girl friennds who control their hubbies or boy friends just by wearing them. I like them too much myself, to hold out, it would be torture for me to have to wear pantyhose or go out dressed up with bare legs.
2006-09-12 11:33:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wear them everyday to school and to work, and for my bf when I see him. They are great, I don't know why you would want to walk around without them. Stockings give you self confidence, and lend a classy air to everything you do. You older women are missing the boat going around with pantyhose or bare legs. Get with it, get a garter belt and some stockings.
And wearing then during sex will be a benefit to you as well as him. I love having sex with my stockings on, and that's something you can't do properly wearing pantyhose.
2006-09-14 08:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need your bf to ask you wt wear stockings? I wear them everyday to work, because I love them and I hate pantyhose.
All men love stockings, I have never had a bf who didn't adore me in them, but I happen to love them myself. Do yourself a favor and buy a garter belt and some sheer stockings. They make you feel like a queen and look like a movie star, and they feel great on your legs. You act like wearing stockings is a dirty thing, yet to me a dirty thing is running around half dressed with heels and bare legs, or worse yet, encased like a sausage in pantyhose up to your waist.
Do yourself a favor and dress up in stockings and you both will be much happier people, and completely satisfied lovers.
2006-09-14 09:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all... You should only do what you want to do, when you want to do it. You should never do anything sexually that you don't feel comfortable about doing. If you are interested in these things that is one thing. However, if you are doing it just to please him then hel* NO. Why is telling you what he and his xxs' were doing. Unless, he is trying to put pressure on you, and trying to make you feel like that is what he likes, and he wants you to be like them. Honey... you need to figure out why he likes you and not continue to be compared to them. I sure the heck don't need to know, and or care about what a man I am with has done with someone else. He has made it no longer special for you and him. It's just something he has done with everyone else
2006-09-10 09:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by junebug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't carry out the same fantasy as his exes did. But, if he had some other fantasy that you could claim... there is no problem with it.
2006-09-10 09:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by wingnutrosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you want to. another persons fetish should not be forced apon you. if you want to indulge him just remember that you must have boundaries like only once a month or what ever but have a cutoff and let him know what it is. and get something out of it. i were stockings but you have to do X for me everyonce in a while.
2006-09-10 09:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, not if he only wants you to be like someone else. That's not right. If he's not over his ex, then he needs to have a reality check. Be YOU, and let him deal with the missing pieces to his scrambled puzzle. WHO DOES HE THINK HE IS?
2006-09-10 09:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by kialavalamp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are guys that have that fetish of girls in stockings.
They like the feel and look of a womans leg.
Just go with it, it wont hurt you.
You might enjoy it
2006-09-10 09:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by Kayte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You decide but I think maybe he asks because he is hung up on his ex and you dressing up like that will remind him of the ex?
2006-09-10 09:20:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋