What would you do if it feels like that you are so lonely but u still don't know if u ready to have a boyfriend or not.?Sometimes i envy my sister because she had a boyfriend that's always there when she need it. Some guys in the chat room ask me if they could court me.Some of them are very good looking and i like them too.But when i realize what my ex boyfriend did to me i rejected their offer of courting me.What should i do?Please help me!!!
2006-09-10 09:05:49 · 8 answers · asked by Wesley Anne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's tough to get over that fear of getting into another relationship and being burned before, I've been single for the better part of 4yrs, and it's been tough letting someone get close again.
I feel the same way when I see my friends and their boyfriends or girlfriends and they're happy or other people that're with someone, it's a sick feeling in the pit of your gut. but you gotta try if you don't you'll always be afraid to open your heart again, getting burned is just part of life, I know I've walked away from several potential girlfriends because of my fear about letting them get too close.
I'm doin the same thing with someone that I just recently started talking to, and I'm scared as hell to meet her, but I hate being alone and seeing other people happy and not having someone to be with just as much, so it's a shot and one step at a time, but the main thing is trying.
as far as talking to guys in chat rooms and personals ads is to always be safe and protect yourself. if something don't feel right when you meet them or they act strange to you, bail out, even if you've dated them for awhile; your safety's the most important thing here. and always meet in a public place like at a coffee shop, a restaurant, or a mall, never alone or at their home until you're comfortable enough with them.
2006-09-10 09:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by quiksilver8676 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are going to be bad to women. It will take time to find a BF, but you need to get out and meet people (including men) and just be friends and get to know them. Nothing wrong with meeting mena dn talking and see how you get along and go from there. Just get a since of which ones seem sincere and which ones are not. Every one needs companionship and friends to live life. Just take one day at a time and dont be in any hurry for anything.
2006-09-10 09:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by kevin T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a friendship with all the trimmings.
Do you want love or do you want firends? Make a decision and then apporach it in that manner. A female shouldn't have any problems getting friends....guys like gals all the time so whats the div?
2006-09-10 09:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? you sound pretty young....if you are still in school, concentrate on school, clear your mind and start doing things for youself, right now you are looking for a rebound...stick it out longer, get to know a person better before you jump into anything, two friends make the perfect relationship, because you know each other and what each other likes and dislikes
2006-09-10 09:10:37 · answer #4 · answered by maemae1969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello honey, dont worry of being cheated by a guy or whoever..
try to take it as you just unlucky.. We guys or i should say "me" have also been cheated by girls too.. it was probably that i'm just unlucky guy..
But nevertheless, not every guy or girl are the same thou, most importantly is we have move on with our life and just be careful of who we are with..
2006-09-10 17:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't expect every man is the same........ try out another one, who knows that he might be an opposite to your ex...... Good luck!!!
2006-09-10 09:09:22 · answer #6 · answered by whitesilk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything is fine.
2006-09-10 09:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chillax!!! who really cares???
2006-09-10 09:07:39 · answer #8 · answered by Swimmergrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋