me and my girl have been fighting about her drinking with the guys from work. Well, a guy kissed him and she kissed him back. She told me she was drunk when it happened. I really love her but do you think I should forgive her or just break it off? I know there are million fishes in the ocean but I really love this fish
2006-09-10 09:04:18 · 23 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think a kiss can be forgiven but I also think that she proved it is a bad thing for your relationship if she goes out drinking with the guys from work. She needs to recognize that when she drinks with these guys it damages your relationship and now every time she goes out with them you are going to be worried about a kiss or worse. If you aren't a big enough priority for her to quit going out with them then it sounds like you love her way more than she loves you and you should end it before things really suck.
2006-09-10 09:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... ask yourself some questions. How long have you been with her? Has she ever done anything like this before? Does she have a drinking problem? How quilty is she about having done what she had done.. and is she willing to stop drinking with her co-workers so it does not happen again? (at least let you go with her?). Being drunk can be an excuse at times.. but sometimes there is an underlying thing that makes people do what they do when they are drunk. They find the other person attractive.. they are not happy with their current relationship, or they have a drinking problem. If this is her first offense.. and you feel she is really sorry, and you really love her, give her another chance.. but if it happens again.. its not worth it. Been there, done that... and I know many others have as well. Best of luck!
2006-09-10 16:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by saturnmaiden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude the girl has already started the chain. First its kissing then it goes from there. Being drunk is not an excuse because she could have chose not to drunk. And her doing it despite you two arguing about it is her just showing that she doesnt respect you. Lose the broad and find a real woman not a slut.
2006-09-10 16:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by gunslinger_2727 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead forgive her this one time, God is a forgiving God and he forgives us for our Sins. when you're drunk you can and will do almost anything. tell her if she don't get some help for her drinking you will have to break it off with her. but if it's true love you have for her it can't be that easy to dump her. so try to forgive her and move on. and let yourself grow from this so if this happen again along the way you will know how to take it better next time.
2006-09-10 16:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough it out if you can handle a girlfriend with a drinking problem, who kisses other guys when she's drunk. And goes drinking with guys from work, even though she knows you don't like it. She's really not showing much respect for you. My advice? Find a girlfriend who respects you and your feelings, and knows right from wrong behavior.
2006-09-10 16:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw, sorry dude, but i think its like 'she doth protest too much'. if shes been willing to argue with you to drink with the fellas, that's a bad sign in the first place--let alone her actually kissing this guy. she shouldn't expect you to just deal with it. i think you should at least break it off for awhile--she may realize what she lost, or you may realize that you are better off alone than with someone who would rather drink after work than be with you.
2006-09-10 16:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by Eos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you go drink with her or just hang out with them?
otherwise you are just gonna let your girl go on "dates" with guys and she is obviously drinking, if she cant control what she does, and you are forgiving to her, she will get the idea that this is acceptable and you will forgive it cause you love her soo much.
dont let women take advantage!!
2006-09-10 16:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The drinking is just an excuse. She wanted to kiss him or she wouldn't have done this. Time to move on.
2006-09-10 16:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by b's wife 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
then have a real serious talk with her about how it makes you feel and if she can't respect your feelings just go out and drink up at a bar with some other girls and see where it goes if she doesn't mind have fun and if well she gets mad..... you can work that out
2006-09-10 16:07:19 · answer #9 · answered by joshofhtown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THrow that fish back. If she will kiss; then she will end up doing so much more.
2006-09-10 16:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by Naomi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋