2006-09-10 08:45:40 · 31 answers · asked by Bella depp 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
If you think in terms of days...why wait any! There really is no difference between 1 day and 5 days, etc. Try waiting till you get to know him and there is a long term commitment between the two of you.
2006-09-10 10:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Days??? Wow you are going to wait days? That's amazing! How about you wait til you are old enough to know the answer to this question? How about not being a slut and actually getting to know the person? How about waiting til you grow up, have some hint of maturity, know what a real relationship is and can pick a suitable partner and fall in love and make sure he loves you back? GEEEZ! What ever happened to love in all of this and commitment?
2006-09-10 15:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by Island Queen 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is a truly hard question to answer. But yet agian not. I mean how do you feel about him do you love him and I mean love not like.
And it depends on your feelings about sex. I mean if precautions are taken and he is a mature person they it can be a fun thing bet realize the sooner you do put out the more likely the relationship will be likely to fail. You must be truly in love with him and him with you before sex enters the equation so basically wait until you know that you are in love with eachother.
2006-09-10 16:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ray C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bella, Sister girl, DO NOT SLEEP WITH HIM.
Look, I dont know how old you are--but take good advise from a Strong Black Woman that has been proposed to by 3 different sucessful handsome men in the past 10 years--Pre-Marital Sex Is main the Reason why so many Black Women are in bad relationships, waiting forever for their man to marry them, and why there are so many black "Baby Momma's" instead of wives...
Yeah, I know what you're thinking--you're rolling you eyes and saying "WhatEver!"....But what I'm saying is soo true..Deary, I am 29, and I have seen it ALL..I have seen so many pretty sucessful black women waiting 6 and even 10 years for their man to marry them..I've seen black women who thought they met Prince Charming and thought they were getting married very soon--only to end up Baby Momma's and living the life of Single Motherhood. I've also seen women get STD's and partial hystercetomies from the results of STD's they got from sleeping with men before marriage.
Look--its your life--but if a man REALLY loves you--HE WILL MAKE YOU HIS WIFE. A man will ALWAYS try to sleep with you--even if he's the unmarried Minister at your Church. But as My Granny said "Its a man's place to say yes, and a woman's place to say NO."
I didnt sleep with ANY of them men who asked to marry me--they didnt touch me..But they RESPECTED me...Girl, God knows best and he told us to not have sex before we are married. Trust me, when you trust in God--He Never Fails You.
Peace
2006-09-10 19:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear God wait!!! I have seen more friends hurt by sleeping with guy too soon. If you can wait till marriage. If not, wait a minumum of six months. If he honestly has feelings for you he will wait.
2006-09-10 19:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by damisaunders@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should not listen to other people (including your guy) and wait until YOU feel completely ready for the act as well as the consequences. Consequences include eventually possibly breaking up with the guy you gave your virginity to, so you need to be prepared to deal with that if it happens.
2006-09-10 16:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by Heidi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How ever long untill you marry him. Don't screw it up. If you are a virgin, don't throw it away. If your not, still, don't screw up. I am a 23 year old man and I have been for 3 months. It is the greatest thing in the world to have a virgin bride especially since I was a virgin too. Don't screw up!
2006-09-10 16:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by vanb11 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
UM AS MANY DAYS UNTIL HE MARRIES U.
MARRIAGE IS A SIGN OF HIS COMMITMENT TO U.
WITHOUT MARRIAGE HOW CAN U REALLY BE SURE HE LOVES U AND IS NOT USING U FOR SEX?
HEY GUESS WHAT GOD CALLS HIMSELF IN THE BIBLE
THE FATHER OF THE FATHER LESS. JUST A NOTE.
HEY KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND RESPECT YOUR BODY THAT MEANS DON'T JUST LET RANDOM PEOPLE USE IT AND ENTER IT.
LOVE YA
YOUR FRIEND,
MMMK92
2006-09-10 16:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by mmmk92 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until the number of days till your wedding.
2006-09-10 15:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by David S 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You should not sleep with a guy just because you like him. What do you do with a guy you love?
2006-09-10 16:52:21 · answer #10 · answered by WendyD1999 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋