I've been dating a girl for three months that I love but there is some confusion. I never can see her; only once in a while. She constantly turns down dating offers because of work or other curcumstances. Often when we make planes, she tells me she can't the last minute. It's hard to reach her on the phone, when she does answer, she always tells me has to go and will call me back. Most often she doesn't call me back, I call her. Sometimes when we IM each other, she sighns off without saying buy. I'm conserned she might be cheating on me. She said, while in our relationship, she's hung with other guys one on one as friends. I also herd she talks to other guys on the phone and internet. She is lovingly when I'm around her but It's like she's a different person when away from me. What do you think? Should I stay with her?
2006-09-10 08:44:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry to break it to you, but it sounds like you're much more interested in her than she is in you. If she's not returning your calls, not making an effort to see you, and not concerning herself with your well-being, then she's not really in this relationship with you. It doesn't mean, necessarily, that she's cheating... it just means that she's not serious or committed.
Best thing to do is to sit down with her (if you get the chance to see her!) and ask her outright whether or not she's happy to go on seeing you. And if she says yes, tell her that you'll be expecting more commitment, more effort, more evidence that she's actually interested.
Good luck... but I suspect you're going to have to find someone a little more caring....!
2006-09-10 08:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be treated like those other guys she is talking to. You have to think what do you want. Do want to be used by her or do you want someone who will love you equally as you love them. I would stop calling her and I would meet another girl.
This girl is self-centered.
2006-09-10 15:50:33 · answer #2 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
add it as a lesson in life and move on , she will regret the one that got away one day
2006-09-10 15:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by Kitten,Doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude dont be such a pu&*y. have sex with her when you want, and get a few more booty calls.
2006-09-10 15:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋