I really like this guy, but he likes someone else.... how do i tell him i dont like him anymore... and how do i convince myself? I dont want to crush on him anymore... he's broken my heart way too many times! Please help me
2006-09-10 08:44:22 · 25 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm under 16, so sex with another person is WAYYYY out of the question so dont even tell me that
2006-09-10 08:47:15 · update #1
he knows i like him.. we're pretty good friends... i just want to forget about him.. i appreciate all the other answers tho too
2006-09-10 08:52:52 · update #2
Well it's gonna take time girl, being you two're still in school, and you'll prob'ly see him around the school campus, the best thing to do is hang out with your friends, join activities in your school or outside of school, anything that will keep you occupied to keep from thinking about him.
Or you could talk to other guys that interest you, maybe date them. and if he gets mad about it or try's to get you back in his little "playas circle", don't fall for it.
he may've been your first love or first crush, but there's gonna be a lot more guys to come along in your life later on when you get older, and will prob'ly break your heart again; but you're WAY too young to worry about findin' a guy to have a serious relationship with right now, date guys yes, but worry more about getting your High school diploma, getting into a good college, travel a little bit with friends and family, and getting a good job. focus on things for you now and worry about love when you're in your mid 20's you've got plenty of time.
live your life, don't worry about petty crap like that, something will come your way, and often when you least expect it.
2006-09-10 09:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by quiksilver8676 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there is not an instant cure for heartache and truly that is what it feels like to all of us who have experenced the same thing. Like your heart is aching. The only thing that cures this ailment is a little time. Look at yourself in the mirror and know there is someone out there (maybe you just haven't met him yet or maybe you have) who will be totally head over heals in love with everything about you someday and then this guy that is breaking your heart right now will only be a vague memory. I promise!!
2006-09-10 08:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by cmandrews_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jsut let him know that things cant work out between u and him
if he doesnt liek you, then dont waste your tiem on him
dont settle for soemone who isnt going to give you their all. Just hang in there and soon enough youll meet soemone who can be totlaly commited to you
and dotn worry, u said ur under 16, so u have ur whole life to fall in love
dotn rush into it
when u find the person God created for you to be with, itll be worth the wait
2006-09-10 08:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by Raerae73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to tell him you do not like him? Go on with you life by living in the present moment. Notice the trees, birds, cars, people, surrounds, music, etc. Be in those moments by giving them your full attention instead of living in the past of your disappointment, or future desire of having to tell him one last thing. That is not letting go but facilitating your attachment.
I know it can be hard to deal with unrequited love. You need wisdom as well as coping mechanisms. In part this comes as we get older and learn from our experiences. For now I suggest buying the book "Power of Now" by Echart Tolle. He will help to teach you to live in the moment which will not only alleviate your suffering but give you a great potential to experience true joy in your life. Best of wishes. Take care of yourself.
Enjoy the Moment (-:
2006-09-10 08:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by Love of Truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for what has happen to u and more sorry to tell you that only time will help. The longer u stay away from him the better it becomes. You have to keep yourself busy and everytime his name pops in your head you have to force it out..Everyday that goes by the easy it gets. But u have to stay away from him too.Plus you have to stop talking about him to your gf's. Go out with them and have fun and look for some guy friend to hang out with..Or better yet look for someone esle to enjoy.Good luck you deserve it.
2006-09-10 08:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't see why you have to tell him. He likes someone else so most likely he could care less if you like him or not. Just seperate your self from him, surround yoursef with good friends, and enjoy your youth. There are pleanty of guys out there and one day you find one meant for you.
2006-09-10 08:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's better to find someone for yourself. It makes you happy out of sadness, at the same time, you have him replaced with someone, and you show him that you dont like him anymore and make him jealous.
Sometimes, no Always , Action has more influence than Speech.
2006-09-10 09:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by Sally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before u let him know u got over him u have to convince ur self that u r so good for him its his loss not u when u will feel that u will get over it . try to rebuild ur life and dont look back by doing what u enjoy best and dont let ur self have alot of spare time it will help.
2006-09-10 08:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by 123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol jst find someone else to lavish ur attentions on!! that's what i did!!!
i fancied this fella for 2 years!! i swore i was maddly in love with him!!
but then this other fella started flirting with me.., so i concentrated on him.. i got over my crush.. ended up going out with new fella.. all beit for a very short time!!! and pointless but only a month later i met a fella who i ended up with and i'v now been with him for nearly a year and a half!
2006-09-10 08:48:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just admit u still like him but dont do nethin bout it.. if he trys 2 do nethin just tell him no..
u can nvr convience urself that u dont like sum1... u cant! just admit u like him
tell him u still like him but ur nvr goin 2 do nethin bout it or try 2.
Believe me... tryin makes it worse
if u dont admit 2 urself u still like him then u will feel bad n desperate...
look 4 a new bf ... but dont just go n have a rebound bf... make sure u like him but make sure he knos u like the other guy
itll work sumtime or another
2006-09-10 08:49:55 · answer #10 · answered by Chelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋