They have been hanging out for 2 years, and she dated him for 1 year. I found her hugging him at my dorm, and many nights she is late coming back to collage. Here is some other stuff:
1: she snuck out of my dorm half naked
2: He tryed to kiss her 5 times
3: He grabes her by the butt
4: He calles her "katey-Watty"
5: She calles him "bobby baby"
6: She walks away from me
7: When I ask, she says "I love you, and I like Bob"
8: She frowns at me and smailes at Bob
HELP!!! If she is leaving me, how can I get her back!!???
2006-09-10 08:21:47 · 17 answers · asked by Perfect 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, move on, from you profile, I think you should just, um....you know, walk by gals that are pretty and say "Whats up babay?? You busy at 6:00pm??" Or just ask her if she wants to move on. Tell her to be truthfull. If she says No then ask what is up with you and Bob, and be truthfull. If she says Yes, tell her It was time, and just, well, move on.Do what he does, if you have been dating so long, move on!!! Or just marry her quick!!! Or just dump her!! Look, from what I heard, looks like you did something, but from the email, she might just think this guy is better. Email THE GUY and ask what is up with you GF.
2006-09-10 08:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by Love 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A relationship is built on trust. The fact that you are even doubting how she feels means you don't trust her anymore. As far as getting her back maybe you should concetrate on becomming someone she loves and someone she likes. In order for true love or in love you must like the person and trust them.
2006-09-10 15:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by sxyknkyblonde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you've just listed a whole lot of reasons for why you SHOULDN'T want her back. Dump her. There are a lot more girls out there that would be glad to have you. Some people just feel that they need to have more than one person on their string at any given time. Do you really want to go on being abused by her until she dumps you?
2006-09-10 15:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh where to start...1. If your asking this question...then chances are she isn't into you anymore....2. read the things above she has done to you.....duh..she is so over you and moving on....3...this is IMPORTANT: you don't.....i mean...DON'T want her back..you can't force anyone to love you, nor should you want anyone that doesn't love you and treat you right...PLZ..love yourself enough to move on and find someone that will love you and respect you.
2006-09-10 15:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by Firefly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sumtimes its best to let go...(just leave her and say u need time to think things over)....because if its truly meant for you, it'll always come back to you without you even trying to get it back!
its that simple..just leave her (break up with her) and give her time even if she tries to get you back that week or day or month...sometimes if you leave sum1...and they dont have you in their grip for a while..they truly realize how much you mean tot hem...im a girl..and ive done it to a guy before and it worked one hundred percent...i have a best friend whose done it to a girl before..and it worked...ive had a cousin whod id it to a guy and he never came back and thats sad but at leaste he found out that she didnt mean enough to him to be with him all the time...understand?..so try that and if she doesnt come back to you..dont sob and sit around...move on cuz lifes too short to sob over one person who thinks of you as an option while you make them youre priority...plus you shdnt cry over sum1 who wudnt cry over you...ok?! lol..if you need any more advice message me
2006-09-10 15:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'de say she is too friendly for comfort. Have a talk with her and tell her how you feel, and if she doesnt see your point of view, dump her. It may be hard, but if she is already cheating on you (and their are a few signs that she may, as you say, be doing so) then you can do better for yourself mate.
2006-09-10 15:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by jimbomediterraneo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obvisously she's trying to do something so I say dump her she ain't no good u sound like a nice guy.
2006-09-10 15:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you should move on dude. I would have been pissed off if my gf's ex grabbed her and tried to kiss her all the time. it's pretty obvious that she's a flirt so if you don't like a girl like that then talk to her about it and if she still keeps doing it then leave her.
2006-09-10 15:26:33 · answer #8 · answered by bob888 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't. and why would you want a girl like that? she doesn't sound like someone you'd want to take home to meet mom and dad. and she doesn't sound like someone you would want to spend the rest of your life with. if you chose to, i'm betting you'd spend the rest of your life wondering if she was faithful to you.
i think you need to break up with her and move on because that is NOT what love is. if she really loved you, she would be much, MUCH more courteous of your feelings. and she would conduct herself in a much more becoming manner.
2006-09-10 15:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by annie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about getting her back. You're in college. Find three sorority sisters and have yourself a blast.
2006-09-10 15:24:28 · answer #10 · answered by Emporer_Smiley 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋