ok there this guy in my school and he wants to hook up w/my friend and when he asked me to help him to ask her out i did and it took maybe like 2 weeks for her to answer his question while i was helping him i started to like him myself.when my friend said yes i was happy for them but deep down i was sad.should i tell him how i feel or shuld i let the couple be? p.s.i really like this guy.
2006-09-10 08:20:20 · 18 answers · asked by browneyedbeauty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let it go. He is no longer available.
2006-09-10 08:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think you can let him go, then let him go before you get really cought up in him. Sure, you are now already but the longer you think about this the deeper you will feel. Let him go. Let them do their thing. Meanwhile, you keep your "radar" on and you may find a boy you REALLY like. It can happen! And it does!
If after some time those two don't work out (highly unlikely they're going to get married right? lol) then maybe you can see about going after him. But by then you may very well have your own guy.
Just let him go. You have had two weeks of communicating with him and thanks to you he has met his goal. Unless he gave you clear signals that you can't ignore that he likes you, you should walk away.
Don't obsess about him. Don't think about him.
Its hard but you can do it!
2006-09-10 15:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by Andrew in Vienna Virginia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your friend, but then drop it, and let their relationship go where it will. There are many guys in your school that you can hook your star to.
I once had a friend help me hook up with a guy, she started to like him, and pushed us to do things we didn't want to the point we broke up. Once the truth came out it hurt my feelings horribly, because I still liked him at the time. Long story short, we all let the hurt go, and are still friend's married with kids.
2006-09-10 15:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by cyunos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can see it happening. But your purpose WAS to sit him up with your g/f. Be happy for them. Who knows, maybe they might break up later. But right now be happy for them and don't mention your feelings for him. Be good friends with the two of them. Don't be jealous, that will only cause hard feelings.
2006-09-10 15:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lonewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to me with a couple of my friends, my advice is to wait until its over with them ( It never seems to last very long) and then if you still like him find a way to hang out with him.
2006-09-10 15:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by HotrodCowboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them be. plenty of fish in the sea..not worth throwing your friendship away on an infatuation you developed over a couple of weeks. you may just have been empathizing with your friend too much to where you thought you liked him too. live and let love--there is someone for you too. if he liked you, he would've let you know when you were trying to talk to him for your friend.
2006-09-10 15:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by Eos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess the best advice I can give is talk about with ur friend first and try to explain the situation before she gets attached to him. Then try to see his opinion if things are alright with your friend!
2006-09-10 15:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by celestia_night 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
P.S: forget it... don't trouble the relation ship you started.. sometimes you need to dump your feelings to make other people happy..
it's sad but life is never about being happy.
2006-09-10 15:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by Bassem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo well let ur friend be happy maby ur friend liked him befor eu did well tell him but something bad might happen like u friend might be mad
2006-09-10 15:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by Hypercutie_2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else. It just wouldn't work out, you'd lose a friend and you still wouldn't be going out with him.
2006-09-10 15:27:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋