my mom is trying to get me to talk to this boy I like but I shy. I think it wouldn't work out even if I do talk to him because he live almost 2 hours away. I told my mom I want to move in with my grandparents so I can go to the same school as him. but my mom won't let me move. I haven't talked to him but very little.
Want should I do?
2006-09-10 08:16:28 · 5 answers · asked by .::country gurl in a 4X4::. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i also want to move to that school because there are a lo less people there and I know the place very well b/c i lived there for 7 years..
there are 780 some people at this school and like 240 there
2006-09-10 08:29:03 · update #1
Quite a dilemma. Your mom is trying to get you to talk to a boy, but she would not let you move to the same town this boy lives. Hmmm! Is this a boy you want to spend the rest of your life with? Are you 100% sure that things will work out between you and him? Will you both get along, since you're the shy one...most boys don't like shy girls.
You can start by opening yourself to him, and stop being shy. Since he will be two hours from you, how about getting his address, FROM HIM!, and email him, call him, write to him, you name it. Once in a while, you two can visit each other. I guess what I am trying to say is, MOVE ON. If this boy is going to be faraway from you, and you think things will not work out between the two of you, it is better for you to only stay as friends, and friends only.
2006-09-10 08:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by Mstislav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can't do anything, meet another boy or tell your mom to stop trying to make you talk to this boy unless she lets you move ... I mean how the heck could you talk to him if u can't see him.. Unless you're psychic or telepathic.. MSN, Yahoo, Phone calls won't work body language is always the best.
2006-09-10 15:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by Bassem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dear, in my opinion, you should talk to him if you like him. Now, to what extent to do you like him? That's what you know better, not your Mom. She must have her own reasons not to approve you to join his school. If it's something inevitable (she's elder, she might know better), quit thinking about him. If not, just go for it.
2006-09-10 15:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by Harry thePotter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance takes time, trust and patience!! I know, i was in one for eight years! How old are you anyways? two hours isnt all that far way, there is always weekneds and such.
2006-09-10 15:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by nawnndawn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be stupid listen to your mom, im sure theres hot guys where you live
2006-09-10 15:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by Cutie pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋