About a week ago I told my bf that i would stop chewing copenhagen, and last night there was this dance. Everyone was there and one of my friends offered me a dip, and i took it. Then as i was walking back into the dance my bf saw me and noticed i had a dip in. He got really really mad and wouldn't even talk to me or anything. Then this other guy that he doesn't really like came up and started telling me i should break up w/ him and go out with someone else. then my bf got mad at him cuz he thought he was flirting w/ me. He got even more mad when he found out he was telling me to break up w/ him. So they almost got in this huge fight. Then my bf broke his hand cuz he punched an electric pole. Later that night he said he was sorry, and that he was going to break up w/ me but when he saw me w/ the other guy he realized how much he cared about me. Wat should i do? I feel really bad about dipping after i told him i wouldn't, any ideas on how to quit? should i stop talking to other guy?
2006-09-10 08:14:54 · 7 answers · asked by kw_711 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im 13 and he is 15.
2006-09-10 08:15:18 · update #1
YOU ARE ******* 13.
**** YOU. BREAK UP WITH HIM.
He deserves better than your **** loving ***.
2006-09-10 08:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by R man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You are too young to be using tobacco. Quit now. No clue how you could even start that knowing how bad it is for you. You have no sympathy from me on that.
2. This guy sounds like he has a problem with anger management. Just be glad he punched the electric pole and not you.
3. Move on. You are only 13, not like you are an adult or anything. You sound far too immature to be all worried about this.
2006-09-10 15:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by It'sJustMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like someone telling you can't do something, then stay with the boyfriend. If you like someone being stupid and into self destruction by hitting lightpoles, then stay with the boyfriend. I think I would get away from the boyfriend as fast as I could. By the way, in what state is it legal for a 13 year old to chew? It's nasty and it will harm your mouth. Secondly, at 13 you should be having fun and not be worrying about boys. You have the rest of your life to be tied down. Now go play with your friends and leave those silly boys alone.
2006-09-10 15:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by b's wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are to young to dip and also to be with someone that is showing signs of violence so early and at a young age. You don't know maybe next time it want be a pole but you. Abusers always feel sorry after what happen but violence repeats it self. I know this isn't the answer to your question but I don't want you to be blindsided but focus on the real problem here.
2006-09-10 15:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by trice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit the same as smoking. just leave it alone and ask your friends to help remind you why you need to. expect some getting picked on. As for the boy friend just be friends at least till he has no anger problem. Which may be never. Do you want to put up with his anger problem for how long? Same with any other boy you see.
2006-09-10 15:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit the tobacco habit. that is all that matters. Jeez you're 13. You want to ruin your health?
2006-09-10 15:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-10 15:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋