Can u actually cheat r lie on a person u say u love ... NO u cant cause if you knew the true meaning of the words u say in understand it u wouldnt have to lie r cheat if you really loved that person ... what do u believe ???
2006-09-10 08:03:20 · 8 answers · asked by crook_sta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you can and that is what makes us human. We all make mistakes. I don't think it is something that I would forgive easily or forget for that matter but I do think that loving someone doesn't mean that you are incapable of doing those things.
2006-09-10 08:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you can love someone but not have the maturity or moral fiber to make a good honest relationship. People that cheat are so into themselves that who they really love is themselves.
Who would want a cheater anyway?
So it woudn't matter what they claimed about love to me it would matter that they walk the walk of truly showing value to me, if they cheat they're not thinking of you and when it comes down to it there can be no trust or value a real relationship requires!
2006-09-10 08:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure - sexual feelings and attraction have little to do with loving someone - they aren't seperate, of course, but you don't need to love someone to want to have sex with them. People cheat all the time on those they say they love. And lying? Comes with the territory if you're a cheater. That comes from both not wanting to get caught, and trying to save the other person from being hurt.
2006-09-10 08:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by ReeRee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pretty much agree with you.
If you love someone ( I mean REALLY love someone) , it wouldn't be so easy to just go off and cheat, and lie.
All that person can really do is appologize, and hope that you're an understanding person.
2006-09-10 08:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I belive if you that u love somebody, that means you dont lie or cheat i would be highly upset if my boyfriend was to lie or cheat on me, but that is just my oppinion.
2006-09-10 08:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by Katie Saunders 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can't. If your truely love someone you wouldn't lie or cheat on them in the first place.
2006-09-10 08:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if u gunna cheat on sumone then dont be wit them break up wit them before u hurt them so badly they would think life is just a big bomb waitin to blow up in their face....otherwise if u love sumone truly u would never think about cheatin on them at all...i hope this helps u...
2006-09-10 08:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by Angelia 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no ... if you love & trust them you'll destroy everything you have with them by cheating & lying ...
2006-09-10 08:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋