do people really know what/who they are looking for when they want a realtionship?
2006-09-10 07:53:08 · 22 answers · asked by Vlakor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you better know what you want or you will end up with a whole lot of what you don't want
2006-09-10 07:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by preciousmoments1962 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, there is no way to really know. having baggage does not equate to knowing what you really want when you're looking. each and every person is their own combination of genetics and experience. someone who is truly growing and evolving will change and also change their mind about what they think they are looking for. i think we all come to relationships with certain expectations and the fun part is when we discover something new in a person.
2006-09-10 14:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by Eos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all comes down to looks.
You LOVE someone until you realized their so shallow, a flea couldn't even drown on them.
I mean looks are great, but your personality is even greater.
(or at least it should be, people don't really care for it)
2006-09-10 14:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-10 14:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by ashley 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most poeple know a ruff idea of what they are looking for but you will never know if thats really what you want until you have it.
2006-09-10 15:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Royal B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may have an idea of what they want, but it is more than likely that they will never find a person who meets ALL of their expectaions.
2006-09-10 14:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by UVRay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. If they are still young, they don't know any better. If they are a older, they've been through more so they know more of what/who they want in their relationship.
2006-09-10 14:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by SimpleGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont most of the time im so nieve that all i look for in a guy is looks.... like for instance.. most girls go for the guys that are hott and there rude to them and are complete jerks...
2006-09-10 15:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by !@!Kelsiey Tech N9ne!@! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people think they know but when they get what they ask for there still be something missing
2006-09-10 14:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, all the time
2006-09-10 14:54:05 · answer #10 · answered by The::Mega 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those who can't find a mate don't know it's obvious. but those who find a spouse know, but sometimes get mistaken that's why relationships break
2006-09-10 14:54:44 · answer #11 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋