Two girls like me and both are really pretty. One of the girls I'm currently going out with because I never knew the other liked me but the girl I'm going out with used to like another guy. I really like the other girl more but the one that I'm going out with is pretty crazy and she might cut herself or drink to much or something, I don't know. I'm asking what should I do? Oh yeah, I'm 13. Don't give me all that junk about " You shouldn't be here " and " You're too little to talk about this stuff " because I don't want to hear it. We only started going out last night.. So please help. Your assistance will be rewarded!! The girls are BEST FRIENDS.
2006-09-10 06:59:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
confusin question..i think u should go out with the girl u like more n be friendly with her!!!by the way it's a stupid question...n i think u should b solvin it urself 4 the 3rd time!!!
2006-09-10 07:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a big decision to make. It is nice to have someone special in your life. My concern is about the girl who might cut herself or drink too much. Sounds like she has lots of problems and need to get straightened out before she drags you into her problems.Make a clean break and quick. I hope the other girl likes you too. You are going to have a lot of time to practice being with girls, so learn from your experiences.Remember to look at the personality and values not just be drawn to a pretty.face.Good luck
2006-09-10 07:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so you like two girls and they are friends..if things are cool between all of you now Id leave it alone my friend. The reason I say this is because if you dump the girl your with now and she tells her friend and you go to that girl and tell her how you feel you will lose. The reason you will lose is because they are friends the second girl isn't going to out with you because you dumped her friend and she is not going to lose her friend over you. Understand?? And I know you didn't want to hear this but 13 is a bit young for steady dating, you should be able to take a girl to a movie or out skating or whatever you like to do and not be committed to just one yet, go out in groups and enjoy each others company get to know the girls around you before you get into serious dating,,but you do not want to hear that so..good luck my friend I think your headed down a lonely path but good luck
2006-09-10 07:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by enoughmichele04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo, this is a tuff situation in any case. if you break up with your g/f, you can't really date her best friend, especially if she's got some issues! my advice is to dump the girl lightly, be like "I think our relationship is just at friens at the moment" and chill on the dating scene for a while. But while your waiting smile at this other girl in class. Say hi in the hall. Compliment her hair or lipgloss, etc. But don't ask her out for a good 3-4 weeks!!! if you do, she will tell her friend, who you just broke up with, and the plan will be ruined. Your ex might even do some of the things you said she might. So just wait after you dump her. Time is your best friend right now. Good luck!
2006-09-10 07:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by Ginger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, Ill refrain from mentioning your age and dating. Cutting and drinking is something to take into consideration as a problem she may have, however I wouldnt base your continuing to go out with her for fear she will do these things. Might be a good idea since it just happened last night to break it off now, someone unstable with cutting and drinking especially at a young age could really be a bad influence on you.
2006-09-10 07:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by Loosid 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you go out with either one, it might cause problems with the other. If you must go out with one of them, go out with the one you like best. If the other one is "pretty crazy", tell your parents or a teacher about her. Someone needs to get her some help
2006-09-10 07:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by mollyneville 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you are too young - by the way- and back to the question... You shouldn't be leading your current girlfriend on , so you should be with who you really want to be with, try breaking up wih your current one and tell her parents about what happened so they could keep an eye on her to make sure she doesnt hurt herself.
2006-09-10 07:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be honest with you,i would try and find someone else,because two girls who are best friends are a bad choice.Due to the fact that if you go with one the other will try and start trouble,so i would forget theses two girls and find someone else.At age 13, you will meet and fall in love with alot of girls.
2006-09-10 07:06:36 · answer #8 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DON'T HAVE TO DATE JUST ONE PERSON. TELL YOUR FRIEND THAT. THEN ASK THE OTHER GIRL AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS. AS FOR THE FIRST, SOUNDS LIKE SHE HAS PROBLEMS, DRINKING AT 13. MAYBE YOU COULD HELP HER FIND SOME HELP FOR HER PROBLEM.
2006-09-10 07:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, you don't want to be treated as a "BABY' So your 13, trying so hard to act and be a man, so be one!!!!!!-Dating is taking responsibility and making choices, do you want to be played and used, nah, don't think,what goes around comes back to nip ya
2006-09-10 07:05:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋