me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago..It was a mutual decison since we was bout to go to college. I said lets see what happens(like if we met some guy)..She met a guy and is currently dating him. She loves me more than me..but now she thinks it wouldnt work because of society and what not. My heart is still with her we talk each day, call each other baby and say i love u, and we are best friends. She says her bf is nice..and she thinks she may want to have sex with him. It hurts so bad cuz i was gona ask her b4 she got wit him..Wut should i do to get her back or lose some of these feelings? She told she doesnt know if we would cuz i couldnt her kids
2006-09-10 06:21:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her how u feel!!!!!
2006-09-10 06:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what you mean because some of your English didn't quite make sense. But if you are an interracial couple and you're saying society doesn't allow you all to date, disregard that and try to explain to your girl that its not true. I am a caucasian female and dated an African-American male for 3 years and was always told by my folks that society wouldn't accept us and that I wouldn't love my baby as much if he wasn't my race. That hurt really bad and you shouldn't listen to that. At all.
I would just etll you to give her like a month more time and then start to move on. You can't be wrapped around her finger forever. I have seen guys do that for months, even years, and it just ends up in much more heartbreak.
Best of luck.
2006-09-10 13:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Itz sad. But you know, some things are just not meant to be.
No answers will heal your wounds. But do what you like doing the most. Make yourself happier, but dont forget her.
If your love is true, it will come back to you. If not, then it was not meant to be.
When god takes away something good from you, he always has plans to give you something better.
May be you would want to wait for that better (which could be the best.)
And yes, this is no moral lecture, but if she loves you, she would not ask the other guy out for SEX. Itz simple: Love means undivided share of heart and body.
Good luck! :)
Cheers!!!
2006-09-10 13:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by Akshat S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her as much as u say then talk to her about it. just sit her down and tell her how u feel. if she's happy wit her new bf then theres nothing u can do bout it but be happy 4 her. things might hurt but in the long run you'll learn how to get througn them and move on. the best way 4 u to be happy is to love her and care 4 her like u dont and try to move on but dont forget bout her
2006-09-10 13:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mizz Kinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have turned into "just a friend". I caught the words "wouldn't work because of society" in your paragraph. That pretty much means the relationship is over.
Find someone else to go out with and when you find someone you really like your ex will go to th back of your mind. In the meantime, keep busy and occupied.
2006-09-10 13:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by sophieb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on she has found some one new and its time you do the same just to have sex you want her back you got to be some kind of a looser then.just leave the girl alone,your living in a fools paradise.and half of what your saying doesn't make seance.take care and good luck.don't go after what you've lost she's water under the bridge.
2006-09-10 13:26:26 · answer #6 · answered by mariolla oneill 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go and try your best to move on with your life. Easier said than done, but long distance relationships never work out.
2006-09-10 13:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by shortfrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is forget about it. Life goes on. You'll get over it. Who knows maybe you'll find someone else and you guys won't break up before you get to ask her! I know how you feel.
Sincerely, Mindy
2006-09-10 13:27:11 · answer #8 · answered by iloveicecream103 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out again and let her decide. If she doesn't want to be with you, then you cannot have a chance of being with her anymore. Get over it. Go find another girl.
2006-09-10 13:38:13 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay...think about it. even if she miraculously dumped her current boyfriend and went out with u- would it work? long distance relationships are killer! right now she is happy, and if u love her u will let her be happy with this new guy and try to move on, i know its tough! but get out on the dating scene and youll meet somebody new too!
2006-09-10 13:24:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. But if she's really happy with her new guy, you wouldn't want to take that away from her, do you? If you really love her, then you'll let her be happy.
2006-09-10 13:28:35 · answer #11 · answered by beetee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋