This sounds like a cry for attention, really. Honestly. If you look in the mirror and see ugly and fat, yet you can put yourself in a bikini and pose in sexy positions, then you have issues. But I don't think that is the case. I think you are just digging for compliments. Why do that to yourself?
2006-09-10 05:40:08
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answered by aimeelopez 2
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nope, not ugly, but much too young to be worried about such things. You are cute and look like you will become a very beautiful woman as long as you take care of yourself.
You are not fat either. Not by any means at all. You look like you can stand to gain some weight actually.
I really really hope you don't take this the wrong way at all, but I think you should find someone you trust that you can talk to, if anything you are underweight, and you are very attractive. If you do something to affect your weight because you think you are overweight, you will be doing more harm to yourself than you can imagine.
I think if you find the right person to talk to such as a school counselor or social worker hopefully they can get you on your way to the right direction. There is nothing wrong with your image, it's just the way you see it. You have obviously not been given anything to build your self esteem and that isn't your fault. It is extremely difficult to build your self esteem on your own. Trust me I know.
And when the boys stare at you it is because they like you and they like what they see, and when the girsl stare at you it is because they are jealous. The boys don't talk to you because they are intimidated (the why would someone as beautiful as her talk to me? syndrome).
Find someone who you trust who you can talk to so they can help you see the same thing everyone else does, a beautiful person.
2006-09-10 12:48:56
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answered by ColvinBri 2
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Wow you are not fat! You have an amazingly toned body. You are very pretty and wouldn't suggest changing for the world. The main reason you think your like that is due to self-esteem and body image. Has someone said or planted the idea into your head that you are fat or ugly? If so then you probably taken it to heart and literally..causing you to question yourself. Most people take comments on board even negative ones and that makes you doubt yourself. Do not listen to people who say anything negative in a nasty bitchy way because that proves they are jealous of what you have and by making you feel bad, it makes them feel good. Critisism is good but not when it's done to hurt people emotionally or in any other way. It is meant to help you to improve yourself to make yourself better than you already are!
I really hope what I've written helps because I have had similar experiences but I chosen to ignore them and be happy with what I've been given. My body type is the same as yours so I say flaunt it while you've got it but be happy!
2006-09-10 12:47:06
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answered by babybitch69 3
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Ur not fat nor ugly but u look a lil too young to be taking poses like that...you also need to find validation from within because no matter how many compliments you may receive it most likely won't change how you see yourself...stop focusing on the negative and keeping reminding yourself of the positives...
2006-09-10 12:41:07
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answered by serenity113001 6
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Number one, your not ugly and less your not fat. Girl you should not care what people think about you is what you think about yourself. And if you look at the mirror you sea a ugly fat girl. Girl you need mental help and glasses, because I don't see that. Find some help fast.
2006-09-10 12:43:43
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answered by Anonymous
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You're not fat or ugly, but you are too young to be plastering provocative pics of yourself on the net. If you want to have someone compliment you, take your pic off of the net and go meet people your own age.
2006-09-10 14:04:37
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answered by Enough 4
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Baby Girl all I see is a Very Sexy and Beautiful Young Lady with a whole lot going on for her. So stop thinking like that because you are a Goddess of Beauty...........
2006-09-10 12:46:20
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answered by maurice m 1
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no your not ugly , we thing your very hot ,just need to smile a little , i know its can be hard to smile when you feel like crap. we dont always see what others see in us .ppl are there own hardest critic . no one will ever nit pick you as hard as you do your self.we both feel the same way at times , you get used to seeing your own body every day it just looks like nothing special. but that is only your eyes. you just dont know how you look through other ppls eye.
2006-09-10 13:42:11
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answered by hotfrsnocpl 1
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I see a beautiful young lady who is by no stretch of the imagination fat or ugly.
I bet all the fellas will be chasing you!
2006-09-10 12:43:49
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answered by Bohemian 4
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I think you know you aren't fat and ugly but you're looking for compliments and it so ain't cool. You look about 13 and your posing half naked and their are pervs on this site so if you don't mind them ogling at you then you are more vain than i thought!
2006-09-10 12:46:41
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answered by missy minx 3
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