Im 18. and my bf is 19. we've been together for 10 months. he stays with his friends fam and he can do whatever he wants. hes starting to hang out with a couple guys around his apartments. i work from 8-3 and go to school at 5-8. after school i always try to go see him even for 10 mins because we dont see eac other that much. and my parents dont know about him. we do see each other on the weekends but lately he doesnt call that much. and i kinda talked to him about it but havent gotten a chance to fully explain how im feeling since he doenst call. im testing to see when he calls, so i dont call him. yesterday he called but i told him i was out and hung up, but before that its prolly 2 days since he hasnt called. i just called him now and he didnt go home last night. i love him so much and he says he loves me too. bt is this a sign? please help.
2006-09-10 05:29:46 · 4 answers · asked by Crys 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's obviously as much of a sign as a blunt 2 by 4 between the eyes... maybe the fact that your parents don't even know should be even more of a sign...
2006-09-10 05:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. It's the downhill phase in my opinion.I've been there.Emotionally he has the upper hand.Dont ,and I know this is hard, have any contact with him for a week. Dont go see him and dont call.If he cares about you he'll call in that week ;just to see if you are okay. Suppose you're sick and can't call. He should be concerned at least about your wellbeing.Now, please listen to me. You work hard,go to school.What the hell does he do. YOU CAN DO BETTER.
2006-09-10 12:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't goin down hill...it has already at the bottom of the hill
2006-09-10 12:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by du boiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. your relationship is going down.
2006-09-10 12:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋