Guys - what do you find pleasurable about rough sex. I mean, what do you get from pounding a girl hard or pulling her hair etc? Is it just physically pleasurable or is it a feeling of being in control and dominating her or her reactions? Girls - same thing basically. What about it is pleasurable? Does some extent of discomfort and pain make it feel good, and what mentally is going through your mind when it's happening? Is it liking to feel submissive and vulnerable, or even just to feel like at that moment you exist only to pleasure the man? It's for a Psyc of Sexuality class.
2006-09-10 04:52:27 · 18 answers · asked by williamselli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a girl, and my answer is D. All of the above!
2006-09-10 04:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by justcurious 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Physically, during sex the body feels less pain. That being said, the answer is both biological and psychological. Domation and submission are biolgically central to the sexual act, but the degree to which the fantasies involving them are played out depend largely on the sexual tastes and drives of the individuals involved. I note that it is NOT always the case that the male assumes the dominant role, and you might be suprised how many men fantasize about being the submissive and vunlerable participant during sex.
2006-09-10 05:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
being that sub is the best I can tell u when a man knows what he wants and it rough its great now there are line that need to be drawn for some trust me there are things that some people don't like and u and ur partner needs to make sure u have safewords and no and stop isn't one because sometimes saying no and telling them to stop can be part of it depends on how far u are willing to go and what everyone it willing to be a part of
2013-10-21 15:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie Rowe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woe! go back to cave man days... maybe not whatever happened to two people sharing real passion slow and, connected, soul stirring love making, i tell you the rough, and, thrashing about sex has no real soul connecting factors unless the woman/man requires it, animal behavior in sex does not make it better sex, you only end up bruised, or lose some hair at the end of it.
2006-09-10 05:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
A little bit of biting and tugging is nice. But nothing to the extent of discomfort and pain for me.
2006-09-10 04:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by beetee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of that and a fossil shark's tooth!
You bring the cocoa butter! I'll find the peanut butter and the mask!
True, all about all that said of circumcision, can also make a guy a queer...
2006-09-10 05:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
hmmm. not a rough sex fan but being a little bit rough is nice throwing here and there. pulling on hair a bit, bitting. plus ifshe uses her nails, grrrr watch out.
2006-09-10 04:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by Orselo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not into the rough stuff. But sometime's my man gives me a good pounding if we haven't seen each other in a while. :)
2006-09-10 05:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by BLONDIE 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The only time I have experienced it was at the request of my female partner. She would say things like....a little harder or faster or "I won't break." The latter was uttered most by the most women in my experience. When these things occurred or words spoken in husky tones I obliged slowly until they responded with pleasurable replies. Always please your partner and she will please you.
2006-09-10 04:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by FrogDog 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I like rough sex because it's exciting, a workout, it's a turn on. Don't get me wrong, I love to make love, but the thought of pain, pain that brings pleasure, not the whips and chains variety, is just mind blowing to me. I like to be grabbed, smacked on the ***, biting, sucking, pulling, all of that is exciting to me.....Excuse me, I have to go upstairs to see him now. All this talk has gotten me heated up...
2006-09-10 04:56:55 · answer #10 · answered by Southern Lady 3 · 14⤊ 2⤋