2006-09-10 04:47:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I can see why she "spurned" you. Grow up and move on with your life.
2006-09-10 04:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by diskkidd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am in sync with your pain. I am sailing in a similar 'ditch -boat'. And I can understand when you say that you want her to suffer the way you have - it is only a human reaction.But the more you desire so the greater would be your attachment to her. Which I presume would be disastrous ( since she has spurned you and might not possibly revert?!!). Let go....move on....we can only belong and not own someone. Things would work out somehow.
Lots of luck and light,
A recent sufferer
2006-09-10 12:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sonia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand because it just happened to me. What you have to do is stay friends (or at least in contact) with her and get your life together. Become sucessful and treat your new and better girlfriend like a queen. Revenge is not a mature thing be it'll sure enough make you feel a little better.
2006-09-10 11:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by DARKMAN97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u get suffered by someone never think they should also suffer...thats not correct.....just pray for them that let all good happen to them...change ur attitude to look at the society....ur chage is important than the changing of the society...so help evrybody whome u can and never hurt anybody there nothing in hurting but evrything in helping
2006-09-10 11:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by bindu kiran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not stoop to her level simply get on with your life and when she sees what a wonderful guy you are she will hurt more than if you tried to retaliate she will miss you and be hurt much more if you go on and be a wonderful guy than if you become a jerk she will think she made a great discison
2006-09-10 11:51:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live very well.
Get another girlfriend and treat her lavishly.
That really burns them, the indifference and giving to the next girl all the things she wanted.
2006-09-10 11:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no point in wanting her to suffer by having such negative emotions ,you will be the only one suffering with the grudge and hatred ,it is better to forgive her and move on with your life
2006-09-11 16:16:10 · answer #7 · answered by sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u show her that she means nothin' to u.
u pretend as if u were never serious bout her(though u were)
don' feel like u r doin' sumthin' wrong.
she must suffer. i m wid u.
don' worry u'll find sum1 better very soon.
good luck.
2006-09-10 11:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by roma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your joking! As a girl I can see why she "spurned" you - if you talk the way you spell I'd run for the hills!!
2006-09-10 11:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by peaches 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can grow up and stop being vindictive. Move on and learn to accept rejection.
2006-09-10 11:49:51 · answer #10 · answered by Emm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋