Our pace was so fast that it was as though I knew him for years. We have got over the sweet phase where everything was so giving and warm. Getting over led us to reveal our unhappiness though quarrels and silly arguments. We had incidents where he almost leave me. During those moment, my heart was broken and I began to wonder if I had already loved him.
How is it possible that I'd fall for a person so soon? And will it be possible for the other way round?
2006-09-10 04:46:02 · 6 answers · asked by Amore 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he almost left me because I had some unsettled business in my previous relationship. We are pretty conversative with giving each other hope that we'll end up together for the rest of our lives cos its kinda early we know. Then again, the hope is made transparent.
2006-09-10 04:52:45 · update #1
i'm facing a very similiar situation here. Are we being reserved by not admiting that we already love that someone?
I feel that its tiring to meddle with the ex and present issue but life moves on. Sometimes, we look back only to find ourselves missing another special one who could have just been that one.
Quarrels and silly arguments are parts and parcels of a couple life. On the bright side, we get to know what the other doesn't like. Sounds too positive? Well, thats just another way of looking at things. When he almost leave me, my heart was broken as well. I felt that I have so much more to experience with him but I know I'd respect his decision. Do you share the same kind of thoughts? I think I already love him though me and him...only started in July. 2 mths plus. Goodness! Hard to believe but it happened.
2006-09-10 05:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by Laetishaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to burst your bubble, sweetie......you have a dysfunctional relationship. You mention unhappiness, quarrels, silly arguements and incidents where he almost leaves you. What is the matter with you??? You sure have a sick definition of Love!!! Better re-evaluate this!
2006-09-10 11:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husb and i were engaged within 8 weeks, and he is my soul mate. we have been together 6 years now and never fight. If ur already having silly arguments thats not really a good sign. 3 months is still honey moon stage if its right. I think u can feel like u love someone and maybe in a way u do but is it true love??
2006-09-10 11:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes to both questions. But now if you two are already unstable as far as the arguing and I will leave you crap, is this really what you want.
It really sounds like a whirl wind relationship. Maybe you should end it before you get supper attached,because then it will really hurt.
2006-09-10 11:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it is possible for a person to fall in love so soon, but I've got to wonder whether your case was real love or just about there because if you love someone, you wouldn't think about leaving them just because of a silly argument.
2006-09-10 11:49:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible in love.Just remember life and relationships have ups and downs.Fix what's broken and move on.Don't dwell on the bad times,work them out and let them go.
2006-09-10 11:50:41 · answer #6 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋