i broke up with him 5 months back but still cant frgt him. whn ever i m away frm my work its him i think abt. my frnds say i shud frgt him but dont know howwww.????? smtimes i feel like gting back to him but smthing in me stops me to do so???? as he is nt all interested in me... even i want to frgt him totalllly but dnt know HOW....
2006-09-10 04:37:09 · 8 answers · asked by navi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your only obsessing ova him cos ur single. once u find a new guy ull forget all bout him. It didnt work out so forget it, remember why u broke up with him bcos thats why it wont work out.
2006-09-10 04:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be foolish, like so many of your answerers are. Do NOT use dating and "another guy" to get over this one. This choice starts an endless cycle of ignorring the guy you're with while you think about the one you just left.
Take time to find out why the two of you broke up. "Thinking" about him is nothing. You sound like you see that the relationship was not a good one. You see that he has moved on - that says something also. Review the relationship in your mind each day until you see the bad parts clearly and how those bad parts guaranteed that the relationship would never be a success. When you see that the relationship has no future (because of the nature of its two parts), then you will stop thinking about it.
2006-09-10 11:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel, the first six months after my break up was devastating but what got me by was this " if he didnt ove me enough to stay truthful to me, then he doesnt deserve me true feelings, i deserve better" and that gave me the courage to go on. then i indulged myself in curicular activities, like the gym, taking maybe tennis lessons, swimming, going out for jogs, going out to the movies evn if its just by yourslef/. its a way of breaking that boundary of "its suppose to be you with someonelse" you tend to feel comfortable with just you.
2006-09-10 11:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find something else to focus on,, there are tons of people out there better than him, look around see life,, Enjoy things for yourself and stop worrying about others,,
2006-09-10 11:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start reading books, and learn to write properly.
Good Luck. You'll need it.
2006-09-10 11:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by smazedmi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk and meet with new ppl ,i noe its hard to forget but everyone does it just takes time
2006-09-10 11:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by mocha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make yourself busy.....open yourself for a new man in your life...
dont let yourself without nothing to do...coz you'll only be thinking about him...
Ask your friends out for an outing....and pray....
2006-09-10 11:41:34 · answer #7 · answered by Angeline_Love16 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
y did you break up with him in the first place? !!!!
2006-09-10 11:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by bigdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋