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(holding a place in line for their partner who then appears with a cartful of items)

2006-09-10 04:34:35 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Etiquette

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I have read the other people's answers and most are good. Until the stores set up policies for checking out that are specific, this will continue and people will have to live with it. Speak to the manager or email the company about providing some and enforcing checkout courtesy rules. That is the only way it will ever be done. However, it will probably not go over well because stores don't want to piss off their customers. I don't know.

2006-09-10 05:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by just julie 6 · 1 0

Your first clue should have been the fact that the person in front of you had no items - why else would they be waiting on line empty handed?

I'd be a little irritated if what I expected to be a 5 minute wait suddenly turned into a 20 minute wait, but I couldn't blame the people in front of me for being smart and taking advantage of the fact they were able to do it.

What annoys me more is when someone lets someone they know in the line with them - they're not actually together and they each have their own shopping to check out, but the second one doesn't get on the end of the line.

2006-09-10 04:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by nyboxers73 3 · 2 0

I think it's perfectly fine. The line isn't so much about fundamental fairness as it is a means to shuffle customers through the checkout counters in an orderly fashion, and a first come-first served basis (usually). But, you can always pick a really slow line and people in other lines who waited far less than you will be helped first. This isn't always about fairness, like I said. Let's suppose everyone went to the store with a partner, one stood in line immediately while the other shopped--it wouldn't change anything. The line would still function, in the same orderly fashion, first come first served. You still have to wait in line behind this customer whether she has items in her cart or not.

2006-09-10 04:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by surfinthedesert 5 · 1 1

Sounds like a city place. The people in cities are so rude that I hate to have to be near them. I would far rather live in the country where we only go to town about once a month for only the bare essential things that we cannot make or grow. All we buy is salt, spices, and some clothing. People in cities will flat out die if the electricity is unplugged for a couple of months. They have lost their contact with the real world and have created such artificial and insignificant "rules" by which to live that a question like yours makes it appear that holding a place in line is a major violation of that artificial world and a reason for distress. I fee sorry for you guys.

2006-09-10 04:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by thebushman 4 · 3 0

I've never seen it happen. The worst I've seen is someone ringing their order thru and their partner pushes in with a couple of items they appeared to have forgotten. That appears to be in bad taste, but no big deal as it is probable legit. I live in a smaller city now,(Halifax,NS) but even in Toronto The same applied. Maybe we do look at life differently in Canada.

2006-09-10 04:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I believe you shouldn't get in line until you are ready to check out. If you forget one item and it is close by and there is someone in front of you and you have time to run and get the one item , that is ok, however you should let the person behind you go in front while you run to get the other item.

2006-09-10 04:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by reallyfedup 5 · 2 0

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2016-11-07 01:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by holliway 4 · 0 0

I think they are working quite efficiently. Would it make any difference if the person in front held just one item and then their partner later appears with more items?

2006-09-10 04:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by bonzo the tap dancing chimp 7 · 0 1

Yeah. It's probably a teeny bit irritating. But hey, it's only a queue. It's only a supermarket. Don't let it bother you. Chill out. Listen to your iPod while you're waiting. They aren't playing by the rules of queuing, whatever they are, but there's more important stuff to worry about.

2006-09-10 05:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by Jackie J 4 · 1 0

I think it's inconsiderate and rude of both parties. What makes the person with the armful of items think he/she is more important than me an any others in line, waiting?

2006-09-10 04:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by Janis N 2 · 0 1

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