I feel bad my question was removed. I was very serious about this question.
My boyfriend wants to have anal sex. I am not sure I want to. Does anyone have any advice to help me with this. I am scared to do it, but I understand many people enjoy it. PLEASE help.
2006-09-10 04:04:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should not do anything you are uncomfortable with. If this is something that makes you feel nervous then tell your boyfriend you don't want to do it. If he loves you he will understand and respect your wishes.
This is not a sex act that is necessary for a relationship.
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2006-09-10 04:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by Bugsy Groucho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't done it either but I am curious and might work up the nerve to try it someday. From what I've heard you need to be totally relaxed and use lots of lubrication. He needs to be very slow and gentle. You can always let him try and if it hurts than put a stop to it. Nothing ventured nothing gained.
On the other hand..... why is it that guys can never be satisfied? It's not enough that they can stick it in our mouths and in our vagina? They have to stick it in every orifice???
2006-09-10 04:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be in control when you do this...you guide him inisde your anus....use lots and lots of lube....go slow...allow your muscles to relax...once he is all the way in...you shouldn't feel anymore pain...
There are dangers involved...one is you can get a disease...AIDS is quickly spread thru this type of sex...and I wouldn't recomend doing it very often, it does stretch the muscles...
2006-09-10 04:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to www.analsexyes.com and learn all about it, how it's done, female/male experiences, the whole shebang. Enjoy! My wife and I have done it for years.
2006-09-10 04:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by Scabius Fretful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not do it, it is sick and the first time it really hurts unless the persin who is doing it knows how to do it
2006-09-10 04:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by crystal a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax........try it..............you might end up liking it............I dated this girl that said NEVER..........one night she got really drunk.........and she did it.she loves it now.....even though she won't say so out loud!
2006-09-10 06:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously it is not good to you and to your BF health........... so why try?....................
2006-09-10 05:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋